qzmjef 发表于 2024-9-7 11:29:22

公众做好准备!明年起,六七十岁的老人或将面临“3个现实问题”


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    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">文|<strong style="color: blue;">黑土</strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">编辑|<strong style="color: blue;">黑土</strong></span></p>
    <h1 style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;">前言</h1>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">随着社会的发展<strong style="color: blue;">,老年人的生活面临着新的挑战</strong>。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">尤其六七十岁的老人可能会遇到许多问题,这些问题<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">不仅降低了<span style="color: black;">她们</span>的生活质量,还会对老人的身心健康<span style="color: black;">导致</span>影响。</span></strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">那样</span>,<strong style="color: blue;">六七十岁的老人<span style="color: black;">到底</span>会面临<span style="color: black;">那些</span>问题呢?又该<span style="color: black;">怎样</span>“破解”<span style="color: black;">困难</span>呢?</strong></span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/a0b1e49c40c74783b98e20639f39d907~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=%2BBA8oFz0GTWFw%2F8X55sk2wvuwv4%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/308ecda9ac694bfd9b7cd84e2fcf88e2~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=lHAOncNEe9oaDRjSdeu4lQav5CA%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <h1 style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><span style="color: black;">为么</span><span style="color: black;">她们</span>不服老?</h1>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">第1</span>个问题是许多人不解的。说起咱们身边的老人家呢,你可能会觉得有些不解,<strong style="color: blue;">明明身体都不大好,却还是<span style="color: black;">那样</span>倔强,死活<span style="color: black;">不愿</span>服老!</strong></span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/786af654a7034517a57dadef0930eea6~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=yOVffoeBsW%2BZWAZLVJZQHyZksmw%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">实质</span>上啊,<span style="color: black;">她们</span>心里头的想法可多啦!<span style="color: black;">有些</span>老人<span style="color: black;">经过</span>不听<span style="color: black;">大夫</span>的话、<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">不按时吃药<span style="color: black;">乃至</span>把药停掉,用这种无声的<span style="color: black;">行径</span>意在抗议。</span></strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">这种“抗议”无非是想要告诉<span style="color: black;">大众</span>,<strong style="color: blue;">嘿,自己身体好得很,人老心不老</strong>,能力不比<span style="color: black;">青年</span>人差哦!<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">她们</span>要维持<span style="color: black;">青年</span>时候的样子,一点儿<span style="color: black;">亦</span>不想妥协</strong>。</span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/23469d6f445b4b49be53378b6f4afae1~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=pf6%2FJiGISjTOvSozhMUzI096XtM%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">举个身边例子吧,<span style="color: black;">博主</span><span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>的父亲今年已72岁,如今身体“三高”症状,平常一个<span style="color: black;">行径</span>就<span style="color: black;">尤其</span>典型。<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">他拒绝服药,已停药好几天,这是<span style="color: black;">为何</span>呢?</span></strong></span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/6e1dd0f156a94e81bbf2a795a4829758~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=eIhLICNIZKeJY8U6WLzKCNvKUgo%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">由于</span><span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>的爸爸觉得自己对<span style="color: black;">膳食</span>和<span style="color: black;">熬炼</span>挺有把握,认为<span style="color: black;">不消</span>靠吃药就能降血压和血脂。这个<span style="color: black;">行径</span>,<strong style="color: blue;">在外人看来是对自己实力的绝对自信,但在家里人心中这是在玩“火”!</strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">那样</span>,<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">从心理上看<span style="color: black;">到底</span>是什么<span style="color: black;">原由</span>呢?</span></strong></span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/eb292f9bad72474c85b8bb1bbb887b0a~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=iJxoWb2zJ%2BzDGjxZA3H7eez6Kj8%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">对六七十岁的年纪,老人们最害怕的,或许是被他人视为无足轻重。这种认知会让<span style="color: black;">她们</span><strong style="color: blue;">觉得身边的<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>们都在冷眼旁观</strong>,<strong style="color: blue;">子女的关心<span style="color: black;">亦</span>在日渐淡薄。</strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">这些无声的压力,如同巨石般压在<span style="color: black;">她们</span>的心头,让<span style="color: black;">她们</span>倍感沉重。<span style="color: black;">因此</span>呀,<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">她们</span>有时候做出的事情,能让你大跌眼镜。</span></strong></span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/2efab71c01fd448da0ef83e5ab1d28c9~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=XyTG5nuDlicXaiHzxym9iuiBuFI%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">除了上面<span style="color: black;">原由</span>,还有社交方面,<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>老人家其实都有着丰富的人生阅历,交过<span style="color: black;">各样</span>各样的<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">然则</span>,随着年纪越来越大,<strong style="color: blue;">社交活动慢慢少了,圈子自然慢慢变小</strong>,身边的好友<span style="color: black;">亦</span>一个个“远去”,<strong style="color: blue;">这对<span style="color: black;">她们</span><span style="color: black;">来讲</span>简直像是一场巨大的心理落差!</strong></span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/add69a417242474d8713ebd58f846f83~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=6PKk0FMQ%2FVFqNUXBtnrWJwas7Hc%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">于是,<span style="color: black;">她们</span>想要证明自己仍然<span style="color: black;">青年</span>的<span style="color: black;">行径</span>,就<span style="color: black;">成为了</span>一种心理支柱。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">她们</span><span style="color: black;">巴望</span><span style="color: black;">周边</span>的人看到自己时依旧健壮,以此在心理上赢得<span style="color: black;">更加多</span>的关注和尊重。<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">这种错误认知,<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">做为</span>子女,应该怎么纠正呢?</span></strong></span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p26-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/84ed7fd92ef444fe9634f08b87dbcdd0~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=GVbLoolqRW1auEXxQ3QcAjGVN0U%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">儿女们应打开心扉跟年长父母多聊聊,帮<span style="color: black;">她们</span>缓解压力,或陪<span style="color: black;">她们</span>去医院<span style="color: black;">检测</span>。<span style="color: black;">由于</span><strong style="color: blue;">亲人的关爱能够让父母重新找回生活和工作的热情</strong>,更有助于<span style="color: black;">她们</span>保持身心的健康。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">正如<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">天津医科大学滨海医院内科崔<span style="color: black;">专家</span></span></strong>所提,采取安抚、倾听方式疏导。</span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/24511d948e7448a7a8ee63c3e1ee529a~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=OZJbvf8vEP1puEGz7ztZ41bQs%2Fk%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">前面<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>讲老年人<span style="color: black;">行径</span>上心里上不服老,还有人说“<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">亦</span>想要容貌上不服老,想要有赵雅芝<span style="color: black;">同样</span>容貌,虽然<span style="color: black;">已然</span>七十岁</strong>,但她脸上却丝毫<span style="color: black;">无</span>岁月的痕迹。她就像是从画里走出来的<span style="color: black;">同样</span>,<strong style="color: blue;">那满头乌黑的秀发、清澈明亮的眼睛</strong>、温柔慈祥的笑容,哪一点都看不出她<span style="color: black;">已然</span>年过半百多了!”</span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/c28f3bd220d14f74ba3b7f3019d20ccf~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=lyR5ipky2CI5HNYANaRKbcRnnio%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">博主</span>只能说,我太难了。<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">与其说她有不老秘方,不如说她<span style="color: black;">心理</span>好</span></strong>,常常和亲朋好友沟通,不服老。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">除了上面的“不服老”错误认知外,第二个又是什么呢?</span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/af6a3a2bfbd94795b62e7a9fa09ba6f0~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=0W%2BtshvE4FKMPbS7Gzfyg0hOl0Q%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p9-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/ad7c24d067fc44f6b416588434b5cd96~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=0I1WAJj9DIQhs%2FdupjXsFXyjBeM%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <h1 style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><span style="color: black;">为么</span><span style="color: black;">她们</span>会感到孤独?</h1>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">博主</span><span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>的父亲有时一个人坐在空旷地儿,一坐<span style="color: black;">便是</span>半天</strong>,不想跟人沟通,这是什么<span style="color: black;">原由</span>呢?</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">她们</span>可能经历了<span style="color: black;">有些</span>困境,<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">例如,失去了旧有的社交圈子</span></strong>,原来的至亲<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>和同事,离开<span style="color: black;">或</span>去世,<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">本来</span>常常几个人在<span style="color: black;">一起</span>玩耍,如今少了好几人</span></strong>。</span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/37fde19202564824a74f8fabfabeba92~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=wIhY%2F3P5IXUWYNXjVuvEKDt%2BPIM%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">就好比一辆4轮轿车,<span style="color: black;">忽然</span>少了1个轮子</strong>,还怎么向前行驶呢?</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">另一</span>,随着年龄的增长,<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">许多老年人面临行动<span style="color: black;">不方便</span>,身体不适和依赖他人的问题</span></strong>,这使得<span style="color: black;">她们</span>越来越难以外出进行社交交往。</span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/161bbfa31537411b886938c56ac9fdc5~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=oErfMoUpEP4rHQRktDJ2CpUL9NY%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">无</span>了社交交往,感觉脱离了组织,可能丧失<span style="color: black;">目的</span>和减少<span style="color: black;">平常</span>活动,<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">那样</span>缺乏与他人分享的兴趣<span style="color: black;">兴趣</span>和充实自己的机会,越来越觉得孤单。</strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">长时间</span>这种孤独<span style="color: black;">状况</span>,<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">可能<span style="color: black;">引起</span>心理健康问题,<span style="color: black;">例如</span>焦虑、<span style="color: black;">懊丧</span>等</span></strong>。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">做为</span>儿女,<strong style="color: blue;">又该怎么<span style="color: black;">处理</span>这个问题呢?</strong></span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/ae474d3b73e1462ab10c3742012a0724~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=4tYSyguk0B%2Bm30czN5Rmg%2Bv8BSk%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">能够</span>尝试用一点技术手段,如智能手机和社交<span style="color: black;">媒介</span>平台,为老年人<span style="color: black;">供给</span>多一点的机会与他人保持联系和互动,<strong style="color: blue;">让他感觉到“原来我还<span style="color: black;">能够</span>为别人<span style="color: black;">供给</span><span style="color: black;">帮忙</span>和<span style="color: black;">愉快</span>”。</strong></span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/9d24ac9d73c941beb8be1f4ccaed1695~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=5NVV4%2BOW5XBPD%2Fei9JI%2FbgvmXpY%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">例如</span>,<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">博主</span><span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>的父亲70多岁的老人</strong>,一个人在农村生活,<strong style="color: blue;">有时闷了拿个锄头去地里做点农活</strong>,问他<span style="color: black;">原由</span>,他说只为解个闷。<strong style="color: blue;">前几日北方天气零下10几度</strong>,<strong style="color: blue;">在家<span style="color: black;">亦</span>坐不住,拿个斧头到地里弄点干柴火。</strong></span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p26-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/33f04039e1174c8d8a7c7a7c3ea9f52c~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=fJJ8xIKMQsjd2GhZSFcnUd3YAVs%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">后来自从<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">儿女给父亲手机安装上今日头条、西瓜视频,抖音软件</span></strong>,常常手机不离手,<span style="color: black;">便是</span>躺被窝还在看。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">有时在地里干完活,还尝试拍个抖音短视频</strong>,父亲脸上的笑容<span style="color: black;">亦</span>多了些。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">网友:<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">我<span style="color: black;">亦</span>给老爷子试试。</span></strong></span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/ae2369866e8b46e4bfcbb7f996527195~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=ZaNXC2pe6vSz%2FVEDKvvdVXdzKNo%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">能够</span><span style="color: black;">思虑</span>对老年人的心理健康进行疏导,<span style="color: black;">处理</span>孤独带来的<span style="color: black;">心情</span><span style="color: black;">困惑</span>。无论哪一种<span style="color: black;">办法</span>,<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">每一个</span>做儿女的怎能不关心和照顾老年人呢,最好<span style="color: black;">定时</span>和<span style="color: black;">她们</span>交流</strong>,给予温暖和支持。</span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/d818e9e73cb34edcadd2bab9ffc2c424~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=SJY3w3UhCHA1w0ZIP6HVE%2F%2BwJik%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/24c68e08e4144eada42f4c5af165d324~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=YEe3Mrdnc5MzWqjC5qKQs4ljiuA%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <h1 style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><span style="color: black;">为么</span><span style="color: black;">她们</span>会感到不安全呢?</h1>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">随着年龄的增长,老年人的身体机能<span style="color: black;">逐步</span>下降,<span style="color: black;">平常</span>生活中的许多事情变得有些力不从心。<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">以前<span style="color: black;">她们</span>可能毫不费力地完成的任务,如今却需要依靠其他人的<span style="color: black;">帮忙</span>。</span></strong></span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/2d35da47430a43f489428197c53067d6~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=%2BqpDNx082vLkF09me2iiSBj8VCg%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">不夸张的说,像走路、搬运物品等看似简单的动作,对<span style="color: black;">有些</span>老年人<span style="color: black;">来讲</span>已<span style="color: black;">作为</span>挑战。这种身体机能的退化带来的无力感,让<span style="color: black;">她们</span>感到自己的地位好似<span style="color: black;">再也不</span><span style="color: black;">稳妥</span>,<strong style="color: blue;">曾经风风火火的<span style="color: black;">青年</span>人如今风烛残年。</strong></span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/220b1ca6b81340889a1ae352843026ef~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=5r8MAgXIoEMFGkHugNvAVk2TtlE%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">这使得<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>老年人<span style="color: black;">起始</span><span style="color: black;">可疑</span>自己的价值和能力,<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">心想着“我是不是没用了”、“我是不是给儿女添<span style="color: black;">负担</span>”,这种思想想多了容易产生忧虑和焦虑。</span></strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">要<span style="color: black;">博主</span>说这是老年人感觉自己<span style="color: black;">无</span>稳定的收入<span style="color: black;">源自</span>,经济不稳定产生的心里<span style="color: black;">原由</span>,正如<strong style="color: blue;">“马斯洛<span style="color: black;">需要</span>层次理论”</strong>讲的第二个安全<span style="color: black;">需要</span><span style="color: black;">同样</span>。</span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/3a4d17f2c3a94edca72f6fa9435bf9bc~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=NRwOYVGWFfmXUqVfSc6SQCO25M8%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
      <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">马斯洛<span style="color: black;">需要</span>层次理论</p>
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    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">农村有句话,人老了儿女都会嫌弃。</span></strong>或许是说儿女觉得老人老了没什么价值,不太想照顾、有点嫌弃。<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">但反观<span style="color: black;">哪些</span>有<span style="color: black;">离休</span>金的老人,每月领着花不完的钱,</span></strong>偶尔还能给孙子孙女买点好吃好玩的。<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">她们</span>的生活档次和同龄的老人,那是不<span style="color: black;">同样</span>的。</span></strong></span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/b7f3d55bde994695a12a81d953166e51~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=HBfApbHIMqkWtAjW3VDqQLIvIkM%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">网友:人性呐。</strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">另外</span>,<span style="color: black;">她们</span>还面临出行的安全问题。这缘于<strong style="color: blue;">老年人身体脆弱很容易受伤,<span style="color: black;">例如</span>跌倒<span style="color: black;">引起</span>骨折</strong>,这些突发事件容易让老年人生活更加不安定和危险。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">除了身体机能的退化,老年人在社交和心理层面<span style="color: black;">亦</span>面临许多困难。<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">她们</span>可能对自己以前的生活方式感到失望和棘手。</span></strong></span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/57e9ec78238d44bcb6bb9473cc3c11d1~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=VrfeA53PtVxgJV3MFvYeBcsvCtA%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">既然<span style="color: black;">每一个</span>人都会老去,就应该提早关注老年人的<span style="color: black;">需要</span>,<strong style="color: blue;">让每一位正在老去的人都能感受到自己有所依靠、有尊严地生活着。</strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">上面讲述了老人可能面临的3个现实问题,<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">那又该<span style="color: black;">怎么样</span>最大可能改善呢?</span></strong></span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/600cae4b3fc34d1fb54a2f4ac9e51b85~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=UmDQ91yaCDDQRPcTYq%2BXxceMM%2Bk%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <h1 style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;">探讨改善老人面临的“现实问题”<span style="color: black;">办法</span></h1>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">定时</span>带<span style="color: black;">她们</span>去医院进行身体<span style="color: black;">检测</span>,<span style="color: black;">保证</span><span style="color: black;">她们</span>的健康<span style="color: black;">情况</span>得到<span style="color: black;">即时</span>关注和治疗。<span style="color: black;">另外</span>,<span style="color: black;">能够</span>为<span style="color: black;">她们</span>制定一个健康<span style="color: black;">膳食</span>计划,<span style="color: black;">保准</span><span style="color: black;">她们</span><span style="color: black;">得到</span>充足的营养和适量的运动。</span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/d27cdabea61b48778c27e8f79641c7c2~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=oiGNRPigiAzaoydbjpGM9hukmoI%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">例如</span>,组织<span style="color: black;">有些</span>适合老年人的运动活动,<strong style="color: blue;">如散步、健身操等,让<span style="color: black;">她们</span>的身体得到<span style="color: black;">熬炼</span>,<span style="color: black;">加强</span>体力和养生<span style="color: black;">认识</span>。</strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">前不久已年过40多岁的拉丁舞世界冠军乔安娜,在<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">12月11日广东深圳“世界体育舞蹈大奖赛”上跳“科目三”舞蹈</span></strong>,<span style="color: black;">导致</span>现场观众热烈掌声,在网络上又掀起一波热浪。</span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/65fb65b72d70411785357f3e2a5ab45e~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=v%2FR8rS2n4Y2zUFkaP6agF4e%2BitE%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
      <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">左三乔安娜 图科目三舞蹈</p>
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    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">除了身体<span style="color: black;">检测</span>外,最好<span style="color: black;">亦</span>要<span style="color: black;">注重</span>长辈们的心理健康。<span style="color: black;">针对</span><span style="color: black;">哪些</span>孤独感的老年人,<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">能够</span>邀请<span style="color: black;">她们</span>参加<span style="color: black;">有些</span>老年社交团体或福利活动,</strong>让<span style="color: black;">她们</span>有机会结交新<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>,分享彼此的生活经验和<span style="color: black;">愉快</span>。</span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/c64eb21a003146219f4a8bf13e370197~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=hhqcNkjRkBCbZcilGbVH2dPjhKo%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">无论是身体<span style="color: black;">检测</span>,还是心理健康问诊。<strong style="color: blue;">儿女<span style="color: black;">尽可能</span>多<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>长辈,与<span style="color: black;">她们</span>分享自己的生活琐事和近况,让<span style="color: black;">她们</span>感受到被关心和<span style="color: black;">注重</span></strong>,减轻<span style="color: black;">她们</span>的心理<span style="color: black;">包袱</span>和孤独感。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">正如那首歌词:<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">常回家<span style="color: black;">瞧瞧</span></span></strong>,<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">哪怕给爸爸捶捶后背揉揉肩</span></strong>,老人不图儿女为家做多大贡献呀……</span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/8ae551e89dcc43c9be3c66e7038fbf3c~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=H7gJ60nJRUApw7DeJ%2BWL1BgqZuI%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">另一</span>,<strong style="color: blue;">鼓励和<span style="color: black;">褒扬</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>是很重要哦,<span style="color: black;">由于</span>人都<span style="color: black;">爱好</span><span style="color: black;">褒扬</span></strong>。<span style="color: black;">因此</span><span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>要发掘并发扬父母的<span style="color: black;">优良</span>和光环,创造施展空间,<strong style="color: blue;">鼓励父母展示自己的才艺和经验,<span style="color: black;">得到</span><span style="color: black;">大众</span>的点赞</strong>。</span></p>
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    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">例如</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">范伟</span></strong>主演的电影《<span style="color: black;">叫作</span>心如意》中,<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">为满足父亲在晚年能荣获“劳动<span style="color: black;">榜样</span>”,范伟自掏腰包拍戏,让从未有表演经验的父亲,</span></strong>戴上大红花,排着队接受老<span style="color: black;">大众</span>夸赞与签名。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">这<span style="color: black;">便是</span>图老爷子一个乐<span style="color: black;">吗</span>。</strong></span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/c5c9ef39756748848bf8a45c9fb3c490~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=UHllodRsMyOBdGdkI3rc%2BFKBk0M%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">另外</span>,<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">能够</span>创造<span style="color: black;">要求</span>让长辈们保持对生活的期待和兴趣。<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">例如</span>学习新技能或尝试新事物。<span style="color: black;">另一</span>,<span style="color: black;">能够</span><span style="color: black;">举荐</span><span style="color: black;">有些</span>好书给<span style="color: black;">她们</span>阅读,</strong><span style="color: black;">或</span><span style="color: black;">帮助</span>长辈们开展<span style="color: black;">有些</span>创作活动,如写作、绘画等,<strong style="color: blue;">让<span style="color: black;">她们</span>有兴趣<span style="color: black;">兴趣</span>的追求和精神的放松。</strong></span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/5fc66daf9f664826ab856bc73d1a4b3d~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=0Hf656F8T7tx1Ab7IG0Nyv2IdVA%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/41de0a5d21ff49f5a31338e24dd9e726~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=PIYTR0rkgTgSvmr%2Ff30ewv1Folw%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <h1 style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;">作者观点</h1>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">随着社会的发展和人口老龄化的加剧,<strong style="color: blue;">关爱老年人的生活质量已<span style="color: black;">作为</span>全社会<span style="color: black;">一起</span>关注的议题。</strong></span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/61a5b257c059479fa43ef4fa5401b7e3~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=HI%2FJmaISsmh4h3Lze9v%2BVDyKc%2Fw%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">尤其在面对高龄老人的<span style="color: black;">结婚</span>和养老问题时,<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>更需倾注心力,<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">为<span style="color: black;">她们</span><span style="color: black;">供给</span>一个温馨和谐的生活环境,</span></strong>以<span style="color: black;">保证</span><span style="color: black;">她们</span>的晚年生活充满尊严和<span style="color: black;">愉快</span>。</span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/44b3791338d249d896068fde0f7f06a0~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=kOu%2B30%2FjUpIFFZH0T5f%2B0Ntjbo0%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">怎样</span>让老年人真正摆脱、<span style="color: black;">处理</span>上面问题,<strong style="color: blue;">答案并非一蹴而就,需要<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>不断探索和<span style="color: black;">奋斗</span>。</strong></span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/8375679ea5c348a5bdf1d9fe9b9272d6~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1726244036&amp;x-signature=0TndtAMWzcxIaFCQFRTgLQkuN78%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
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nqkk58 发表于 2024-9-27 08:57:21

回顾历史,我们不难发现:无数先辈用鲜血和生命铺就了中华民族复兴的康庄大道。

nqkk58 发表于 2024-10-21 21:35:28

同意、说得对、没错、我也是这么想的等。

nqkk58 发表于 2024-11-11 04:11:26

你的言辞如同繁星闪烁,点亮了我心中的夜空。
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