43岁住家保母的辛酸与无奈：月薪10000，倘若有来世决不做保母
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">因为</span>社会的老龄化，养老问题<span style="color: black;">亦</span>越来越<span style="color: black;">明显</span>，随着养老问题的<span style="color: black;">需要</span> ，住家<span style="color: black;">保母</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>必然是大势所趋。</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">任姐43岁，老家山东农村，儿子在上海读大学，老公在广东打工，任姐想着自己<span style="color: black;">能够</span>去上海打工，<span style="color: black;">能够</span><span style="color: black;">增多</span>点收入，还<span style="color: black;">能够</span>经<span style="color: black;">平常</span>着儿子，他把想法跟家人说了，家人<span style="color: black;">亦</span>觉得她说得对，于是任姐收拾行李来到了上海。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">由于</span>任姐<span style="color: black;">无</span>特长，来到上海后就去<span style="color: black;">中间商</span>找了一个住家<span style="color: black;">保母</span>的工作，当时想着住家<span style="color: black;">保母</span>不需要租房子，<span style="color: black;">能够</span>省去一笔房租，挺好的。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">中间商</span>给她介绍到一家72岁的大爷家做住家<span style="color: black;">保母</span>，<span style="color: black;">每一个</span>月管吃管住10000元，任姐一听<span style="color: black;">每一个</span>月到手工资纯10000元，就高兴的答应了。</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">来到雇主徐大爷家后，徐大爷介绍了工作的基本<span style="color: black;">状况</span>，任姐觉得完全<span style="color: black;">能够</span>胜任这份工作，<span style="color: black;">根据</span><span style="color: black;">中间商</span>工作人员的<span style="color: black;">指点</span>填了合同。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">中间商</span>工作人员走后，徐大爷说，你就负责洗衣做饭，买菜和打扫卫生就行。任姐说，您<span style="color: black;">安心</span>，我<span style="color: black;">必定</span>照顾好您。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">就<span style="color: black;">这般</span>任姐<span style="color: black;">每日</span>把家里打扫的干干净净，变得<span style="color: black;">花招</span>的给徐大爷做饭，<span style="color: black;">她们</span>相处的还挺融洽。</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">过了一段时间 ，徐大爷说明天是我的生日，之前是请<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>和儿女们出去吃，<span style="color: black;">此刻</span>觉得你菜烧的不错，<span style="color: black;">因此</span>想请<span style="color: black;">她们</span>到家里来吃，明天就辛苦你了。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">次日</span>早早的任姐就去买菜，买好菜切好洗净，<span style="color: black;">晌午</span><span style="color: black;">所有</span>完成 就在准备要吃饭的时候，徐大爷<span style="color: black;">忽然</span>对任姐说，今天你是下人，是<span style="color: black;">不可</span>和<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">一块</span>吃饭的。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">任姐听了心里说不出的难受，真想<span style="color: black;">马上</span>离开，<span style="color: black;">然则</span>人家说的<span style="color: black;">亦</span>没错，忍着还是留了下来，一<span style="color: black;">晌午</span><span style="color: black;">她们</span>吃的连汤都没剩，等<span style="color: black;">她们</span>吃完任姐把家里收拾完才自己煮了点面条吃。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">没几天除夕到了，任姐做了一大桌好吃的，自己<span style="color: black;">一样</span>煮了点面条，大过年的，在自己家<span style="color: black;">亦</span>不可能只吃点面条，想想真是心酸。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">任姐最怕家里来人，家里一来人她<span style="color: black;">便是</span>下人的<span style="color: black;">薪水</span>。</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">有一次任姐帮徐大爷捏肩膀，<span style="color: black;">因为</span>那天身体不舒服，力气小了，徐大爷竟然说任姐饭吃到狗肚里了，这种屈辱，没做过<span style="color: black;">保母</span>的人是体会不到是何等滋味的。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">类似事情还有<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>，虽然挣得工资不少，但任姐每时每刻<span style="color: black;">皆想</span>着逃离。<span style="color: black;">保母</span>工作看起来简单，但<span style="color: black;">亦</span>不是人人都干的了的。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">有几种人是不适合当<span style="color: black;">保母</span>的</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">1、固执的人</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">来到雇主家里，要<span style="color: black;">根据</span>雇主的<span style="color: black;">需求</span>煮饭做菜，打扫家务，<span style="color: black;">不可</span><span style="color: black;">根据</span>自己的<span style="color: black;">始终</span><span style="color: black;">败兴</span>的习惯来<span style="color: black;">办事</span>。<span style="color: black;">倘若</span>不按雇主的<span style="color: black;">需求</span>，雇主就会心存不满，<span style="color: black;">因此</span>太固执的人是不适合当<span style="color: black;">保母</span>的。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">2、<span style="color: black;">不可</span>吃苦的人</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">虽然<span style="color: black;">保母</span>能拿接近于白领的高工资，<span style="color: black;">然则</span>需要一天24小时窝在雇主家里，相应的吃的苦<span style="color: black;">亦</span>多，<span style="color: black;">倘若</span>遇上<span style="color: black;">欠好</span>相处的雇主，还会经常挨骂，<span style="color: black;">因此</span>不<span style="color: black;">意见</span><span style="color: black;">不可</span>吃苦的人去做<span style="color: black;">保母</span>。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">3、不愿意学习的人</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">保母</span>这个看似门槛很低的职业，<span style="color: black;">然则</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>是需要慢慢<span style="color: black;">累积</span>经验的，<span style="color: black;">仅有</span><span style="color: black;">持续</span>学习，<span style="color: black;">把握</span>做<span style="color: black;">保母</span>的知识，才<span style="color: black;">能够</span>得到雇主的<span style="color: black;">喜爱</span>。</p>
我完全同意你的观点，说得太对了。 “板凳”（第三个回帖的人）
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