fny5jt9 发表于 2024-10-23 13:42:06

十二岁男孩迷上了做饭，饭菜色香味俱全，小小暖男是怎么练出来的


    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-qvj2lq49k0/f86a511427a241e6ad94d6618b0aaf6a~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1729445663&amp;x-signature=fXkAM9RPxOB6mXJz9A6oiqgkwsI%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">我家儿子12岁，今年上六年级。不<span style="color: black;">晓得</span>什么<span style="color: black;">原由</span>，从去年<span style="color: black;">起始</span>，写完作业之余，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>爱上了看美食类的电视节目，我记得<span style="color: black;">每日</span>打开电视，必看当天中央十台的美食节目《味道》。</p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">从今年过年以后，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">更加是</span>迷上了做饭，对着某音、某手里还有头条里的视频，<span style="color: black;">炸丸子、红烧肉、红烧排骨、夹肉饼、可乐鸡翅还有各类炒饭，菜切得规规整整，饭烧得有板有眼，色香味俱全，让人食欲大开。<span style="color: black;">况且</span>天天饭菜不重样，口味不重复，着实让我家邻居看到以后<span style="color: black;">仰慕</span>不已。</span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-qvj2lq49k0/10f650738a4d4d9aa829d8efcd6848fc~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1729445663&amp;x-signature=gcpSXGcmFMXxHA34NHFHqzMpFi0%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">我和爱人平时工作都比较忙，有时候回到家就<span style="color: black;">夜晚</span>八九点钟了，刚一坐下，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>就把热腾腾的饭菜端了上来，<span style="color: black;">看着<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>稚嫩的身影和<span style="color: black;">熟悉</span>的操作手法，有时候真的被这个小暖男狠狠的暖了一把，有时候能把我和他妈妈激动地流出眼泪！</span></p>
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      <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做的意大利面</p>
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      <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做的烧茄子</p>
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    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">在乐享其成、享受美食的<span style="color: black;">同期</span>，我<span style="color: black;">暗里</span>里<span style="color: black;">亦</span>和爱人讨论：<span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">咱们</span>平时<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">无</span>刻意去<span style="color: black;">需求</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>帮<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>做饭，一个十二岁的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>为啥偏偏<span style="color: black;">爱好</span>上做饭？<span style="color: black;">况且</span>做得这么好。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">反思下来，我认为是以下几点让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>养<span style="color: black;">成为了</span>爱做饭的好习惯。</p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">1、</span>宽松的家庭环境是激励<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">持续</span>探索的沃土。</span>我家的教育模式是及其宽松和民主的，只要<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>能把当天的学习任务认认真真完成，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>会鼓励<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>干点自己感兴趣的东西，有时候<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>还会主动参与进来。<span style="color: black;">例如</span>和<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">一起</span><span style="color: black;">瞧瞧</span>电视，我家<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>爱看中央十台的《解码科技史》，我和爱人就会和<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>坐下<span style="color: black;">一起</span>看，看后还会和<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>探讨心得体会。有时，我和爱人还会陪<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>玩玩扑克等小游戏。</p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">在家里，我和爱人从来不会强迫<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>干什么！只要<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>想干什么，只要<span style="color: black;">恰当</span>，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>就会鼓励<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>大胆去干。我认为，正是这种宽松的家庭环境激发了<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>积极探索未知世界的欲望，<span style="color: black;">因此</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>到饭店吃饭就会反思为啥我做得不如厨师做得好，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>就会在各类<span style="color: black;">媒介</span>上<span style="color: black;">查询</span>烹饪的诀窍，激发了他探索新世界的<span style="color: black;">剧烈</span>求知欲。</p>
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      <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做的夹肉饼</p>
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    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">2、</span>浓厚的兴趣<span style="color: black;">兴趣</span>是<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>爱上做饭的<span style="color: black;">基本</span><span style="color: black;">原由</span>。</span><span style="color: black;">因为</span>我和爱人工作都比较忙，有时忙碌一天，真想早点歇一歇，<span style="color: black;">因此</span>做饭时就会产生应付心理，心里想反正让你们吃饱就行，<span style="color: black;">引起</span>一日三餐老三样，时间长容易吃腻。而我家<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>吃饭又比较挑剔，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>做的饭不愿意吃，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>就会想办法自己<span style="color: black;">科研</span>，<span style="color: black;">况且</span><span style="color: black;">花招</span><span style="color: black;">持续</span>翻新，<span style="color: black;">便是</span>方便面人家都能吃出<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>种<span style="color: black;">花招</span>来，或许这<span style="color: black;">便是</span>“懒父母养出勤<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>”的道理吧！</p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">3、</span>适当的鼓励是让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>从兴趣走向成功的关键。</span>见过<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>父母，<span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>想做饭，<span style="color: black;">然则</span>一伸手就把锅台弄得一团糟，东一摊油、西一堆米，收拾起来非常费劲，家长就<span style="color: black;">起始</span>唠叨<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，一盆冷水把<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>一团热情就给浇灭了</span>。还有的家长，口头禅<span style="color: black;">便是</span>：<span style="color: black;">你一个小孩家，把学习搞好就行了，做饭的事<span style="color: black;">不消</span>你管。</span>言外之意<span style="color: black;">便是</span>别让家务影响了学习，<span style="color: black;">殊不知适当的家务劳动<span style="color: black;">能够</span><span style="color: black;">提高</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">规律</span>思维能力和动手能力，还能在劳动中<span style="color: black;">得到</span>成就感，其实对<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的成长是大有裨益的。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">我和爱人的做法<span style="color: black;">便是</span>，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>愿意做饭，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>就积极支持，买足做饭需要的调料，积极鼓励<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，并给<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>打下手，<span style="color: black;">这般</span><span style="color: black;">整家</span>人齐上阵，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>干起活来<span style="color: black;">自信心</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>更足了。</p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">【笔者心语】</span><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>们天生就对未知<span style="color: black;">行业</span>有着极强的探索欲，<span style="color: black;">做为</span>父母，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>只要认真引导、适当鼓励、积极参与，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>就会<span style="color: black;">自信心</span>十足，高质量的完成自己想做的事！</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">还是那句话，父母好好学习，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>才会天天向上！学习家庭教育知识，争做智慧父母，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>们将来都能<span style="color: black;">作为</span>栋梁之才！加油!</p>




b1gc8v 发表于 2024-11-8 17:32:15

你的话语如春风拂面，温暖了我的心房，真的很感谢。
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