全职妈妈真实记录：有人老公不回家，有人兼职邻居的煮饭阿姨，还有……
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/Ql0PKHN9kBScxld5alGyDricIX0LAsiaGHs4O98GtnJfP6BF7b2jbd38hU8ibe7QG4TsMrSBqff5nFAAn2zncomicA/640?wx_fmt=gif&random=0.4401410342143943&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></p><span style="color: black;">这两天比较忙，<span style="color: black;">因此</span>转载一篇<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>公众号白菜妈妈进化史的<span style="color: black;">文案</span>。明天会发原创哦。<span style="color: black;">爱好</span>今天的<span style="color: black;">文案</span>，记得评论区留言</span><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">近期</span>，后台收到好多与全职妈妈找工作<span style="color: black;">相关</span>的留言。</span><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">找工作前是不是该去学习什么技能？</span></strong></span><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">该找什么样的工作<span style="color: black;">能够</span>兼顾家庭？</span></strong></span><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">做微商<span style="color: black;">能够</span>吗？</span></strong></span><span style="color: black;">
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</span><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">每一个</span>问号<span style="color: black;">背面</span>都是妈妈们的纠结和焦虑，最消耗的是内心纠结，纠结的时间越长，人越焦虑，该<span style="color: black;">处理</span>的问题一个没少。</span><span style="color: black;">全职妈妈找工作的确很麻烦，一方面是在家带<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，常年与职场脱节，很难即刻适应，另一方面，这个社会对大龄女性的就业的确，不算太友好。</span><span style="color: black;">再加上，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>接送问题，周末<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>看管问题，时间上，<span style="color: black;">无</span>太多讨价还价的空间。</span><span style="color: black;">今天<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>找了三个全职妈妈聊聊，<span style="color: black;">瞧瞧</span>她们是<span style="color: black;">怎样</span>对待找工作这件事的？文中<span style="color: black;">名人</span><span style="color: black;">所有</span>化名。</span><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">01</span></strong></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">蕙姐 </span><span style="color: black;">43岁</span></span><span style="color: black;">大专学历</span><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">大女儿15岁、小儿子8岁</span></span><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/Vw5aa50bFL1BYtokRvpypGRrsfNWZfY5JLncFibs6FJF8aU0D2MIhicv9T3mr36BMYfMEHGIJ3w7ibzqOuDmqLbHg/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&random=0.041069948090677544&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"><span style="color: black;">全文图源于李小冉主演的电视剧《春暖花开》</span><span style="color: black;">08年生大女儿，15年生小儿子，大女儿出生后，我还在<span style="color: black;">机构</span>做出纳，小儿子出生后，实在是忙<span style="color: black;">不外</span>来，只好辞职，做全职妈妈。</span><span style="color: black;">本来计划是小儿子上幼儿园，我就出来工作。前三年疫情，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>们都在家上网课，我<span style="color: black;">亦</span>没办法找工作。拖到<span style="color: black;">此刻</span>，我43岁了。</span><span style="color: black;">本来以为找工作不难，我的<span style="color: black;">需求</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>不高，有份班上就好，结果，连我家楼下超市招聘出纳都要35岁以下。</span><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/Vw5aa50bFL1BYtokRvpypGRrsfNWZfY5N1yZjdh3ZKhkFMa7lsaycEcDOaStXhuTNmibkBnGWjhPtTJewIlv3Cw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&random=0.4030895368746845&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"><span style="color: black;">我只好把找工作的<span style="color: black;">目的</span>调低，我<span style="color: black;">为何</span><span style="color: black;">不可</span>去从事体力劳动？</span><span style="color: black;">我给一家快餐店打<span style="color: black;">tel</span>，她们兼职是28元一小时，得到的答复是<span style="color: black;">需求</span>40岁以下。</span><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">是不是很生气，超过40岁的人，连端盘子都被嫌弃。</strong></span><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/Vw5aa50bFL1BYtokRvpypGRrsfNWZfY5KYbFib5gaXBibLgYlWyd8WyskeED8fzqK3gjIY1fWqqiaSsz13dDOX5rw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&random=0.9970288959121996&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"><span style="color: black;">在家不上班，自己心里烦躁，和老公关系<span style="color: black;">亦</span>处<span style="color: black;">欠好</span>（之前关系就<span style="color: black;">通常</span>），他在家我烦，他不在家，我<span style="color: black;">亦</span>烦，我都<span style="color: black;">可疑</span>我是不是快到更年期了。</span><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">02</span></strong></span><span style="color: black;">阿肉 36岁</span><span style="color: black;">
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</span><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>小学一年级</span><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/Vw5aa50bFL1BYtokRvpypGRrsfNWZfY57qWFnib75EXXW25EK4rpG1YfjuX8pnts4dB3Ry2WnOxRKK7icnHzRnzg/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&random=0.7322169707612671&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"><span style="color: black;">我想离婚，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>爸不想离。</span><span style="color: black;">不离婚，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>不回家，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>丢给我，<span style="color: black;">一月</span>给我3000块钱。3000块钱，<span style="color: black;">包含</span>我和<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的生活费。在广州，这钱，过得非常勉强。</span><span style="color: black;">坐班的工作不适合我，我要接送<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，兼职工作大多集中在下午偏<span style="color: black;">夜晚</span>，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>不符合我，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>最晚放学只能到六点。</span><span style="color: black;"><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/Vw5aa50bFL1BYtokRvpypGRrsfNWZfY5v9F5veVs9xiaANZiarcPY0xJEaHpRVPqtplIZUer8S8BVAJMqylt3Vsg/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&random=0.38759746004949935&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></span><span style="color: black;">左思右想，我去了儿子小学旁边的幼儿园做保育员。</span><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">是的，我一个本科毕业的人，在一个民办幼儿园做保育员。</strong></span><span style="color: black;">工资3000块<span style="color: black;">一月</span>，包早饭<span style="color: black;">晌午</span>，下午五点半下班，<span style="color: black;">无</span>加班，非常符合我的时间安排。</span><span style="color: black;">寒暑假<span style="color: black;">亦</span>有工资，发一半。关键是帮我交社保，<span style="color: black;">况且</span><span style="color: black;">能够</span><span style="color: black;">保准</span>我<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的接送时间。</span><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/Vw5aa50bFL1BYtokRvpypGRrsfNWZfY57PVgZ1V7Biamkuefk9e6WQdqJ5DWiaiaY1JYE9Qa2hD8RkmWM5pfprDIA/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&random=0.1620874336038569&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"><span style="color: black;">我<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">晓得</span>这份工作不是<span style="color: black;">很久</span>之计，<span style="color: black;">然则</span>我还是非常感谢幼儿园老板愿意录取我。</span><span style="color: black;">我<span style="color: black;">已然</span>在应聘一家培训<span style="color: black;">公司</span>课后托管的老师，<span style="color: black;">倘若</span>应聘成功，我<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>放学以后能和我<span style="color: black;">一块</span>上班。等到经验累积够了，<span style="color: black;">将来</span>，或许我自己开一家托管<span style="color: black;">公司</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>不赖。</span><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/Vw5aa50bFL1BYtokRvpypGRrsfNWZfY5voqptZzwydZicf4qbLriaxDec1plicHsQkOrr5L2d6MM47CU3UtdK0dZw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&random=0.1544497524395776&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">有了娃之后，<span style="color: black;">无</span>什么不切实际的想法。挺好的。</strong></span><span style="color: black;">至于<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>爸，感谢他半年<span style="color: black;">无</span>回家，否则我都不<span style="color: black;">晓得</span>，原来<span style="color: black;">无</span>他，我一个人<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">能够</span>带娃生活。我会继续和<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>爸谈离婚的事，祝我成功。</span><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">03</span></strong></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">Waka </span><span style="color: black;">42岁</span></span><span style="color: black;">本科学历</span><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>小学五年级</span></span><span style="color: black;">我这份工作来得非常戏剧性。</span><span style="color: black;">
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>培训班的<span style="color: black;">微X</span>群里，有一个妈妈抱怨钟点工阿姨在家<span style="color: black;">一块</span>吃饭，那个阿姨吃饭<span style="color: black;">爱好</span>吧唧嘴，担心<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>学。那个妈妈把钟点工阿姨炒了，问<span style="color: black;">大众</span>有<span style="color: black;">无</span><span style="color: black;">举荐</span>的煮饭阿姨。</p>
</span><span style="color: black;">我思来想去，决定问她要不要我。</span><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/Vw5aa50bFL1BYtokRvpypGRrsfNWZfY50vpPVib0kwkYsEC4Gdeib4WSztnYBG88OmtvBOWGY1fhDmvHfZzP6QVg/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&random=0.906910050136144&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"><span style="color: black;">我把我的<span style="color: black;">意见</span>和她说了，我提早煮好饭，她们回来热一下，<span style="color: black;">这般</span>就<span style="color: black;">不消</span>担心<span style="color: black;">一块</span>吃饭的尴尬。<span style="color: black;">况且</span>我的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，她<span style="color: black;">亦</span>认识，信任度上绝对<span style="color: black;">靠谱</span>。</span><span style="color: black;">没想到那个妈妈居然答应了，<span style="color: black;">一月</span>给我工资开2200元.如今我<span style="color: black;">已然</span>在她家做了一年多，合作非常愉快。</span><span style="color: black;">周<span style="color: black;">1星期</span>五下午4点，我去她家中搞卫生做饭，做完后，我把饭菜盖好，大概就5点半的样子，<span style="color: black;">而后</span>我就出门，去学校接我儿子放学。</span><span style="color: black;">我觉得全职妈妈找工作，真的不要太讲究面子。钱才是最重要的。<span style="color: black;">一月</span>2200元是我自己挣来的，不是我跟老公要的。非常有安全感。</span><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/Vw5aa50bFL1BYtokRvpypGRrsfNWZfY5QGqZNrhQctmpzyqb85YVhdKhIShplMqr5PibvLhjsJfdI8cibZEFPJNA/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&random=0.8377418638399574&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"><span style="color: black;">看完三个妈妈的对话，你们有什么想法。</span><span style="color: black;">全职妈妈想要回到职场，除了足够的<span style="color: black;">自信心</span>，还要学会放低身段。先找到工作，有了工作，有了稳定收入，<span style="color: black;">才可</span>找回底气，才有机会去谋更好地<span style="color: black;">将来</span>。</span><span style="color: black;">千万不要陷入自我<span style="color: black;">可疑</span>，<span style="color: black;">乃至</span>自我贬低，找工作本来<span style="color: black;">便是</span>一件难事。祝<span style="color: black;">大众</span>都能找到好工作。</span><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/Vw5aa50bFL1BYtokRvpypGRrsfNWZfY5SWObtXNrTu7LghtGu9SqHUmKz3iaicKuVMjic7yFic8QW7EtL2tVIzZiaXA/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&random=0.7600359963552923&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">- END -</strong></span><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">推 荐 阅 读</strong></span><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"># 生活笔记 #</strong></span>
<h1 style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><span style="color: black;">● <a style="color: black;">37岁的我，要接受一个很大的挑战</a></span></h1>
<h1 style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><span style="color: black;">● <a style="color: black;">开了个家长会，3个妈妈问了我</a>同一个问题……</span></h1>
<h1 style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><span style="color: black;">● <a style="color: black;">从全职妈妈，到月入2万，我从<span style="color: black;">朋友</span>妈妈身上学到的……</a></span></h1><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">点个赞，当作鼓励哦~</strong></span>
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