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我最值得的一项支出，便是请了2个钟点工阿姨

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    <h1 style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;">01</h1>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> 这几年，有一笔花费，我是不会省的，<span style="color: black;">便是</span></span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">请钟点工阿姨</span></strong><span style="color: black;">，前两年，一小时30块钱，这两年一小时</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">35-40块钱</span></strong><span style="color: black;">，性价比非常高。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">为何</span>我是请了两个钟点工阿姨呢？</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">机构</span>里一个，家里一个。</span></strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> <span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">机构</span>在市中区，租了一个带院的老房子</span><span style="color: black;">（交给托管<span style="color: black;">机构</span>统一打理）</span><span style="color: black;">，<span style="color: black;">机构</span>里什么东西坏了，都是托管<span style="color: black;">机构</span><span style="color: black;">第1</span>时间来修，<span style="color: black;">尤其</span>方便。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">在<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>租之前，<span style="color: black;">这儿</span><span style="color: black;">已然</span>有一家外国<span style="color: black;">机构</span>租了4年，什么都是现成的，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>租下来办公，<span style="color: black;">尤其</span>方便。 </span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">最难得是有厨房，<span style="color: black;">能够</span>做饭。</span></span></strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> <span style="color: black;">咱们</span>决定找一个阿姨，<span style="color: black;">日前</span><span style="color: black;">1星期</span>来5天，一天3小时，</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">一月</span>不到3000块钱就<span style="color: black;">处理</span>了。</span></strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">之前找阿姨的<span style="color: black;">办法</span>，我还写过一篇<span style="color: black;">文案</span>《“<span style="color: black;">机构</span>要找阿姨做饭，我让实习生出个<span style="color: black;">方法</span>。”你能力行不行，就看能<span style="color: black;">不可</span>落地》</span><span style="color: black;">（点击题目查看）</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> 中间还换过一个阿姨，阿姨又<span style="color: black;">举荐</span>了自己的好<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>，</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">一位做饭非常好吃的阿姨，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>经常光盘。</span></strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> 这个阿姨，</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">让<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>同事的幸福感<span style="color: black;">提高</span>了<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>。</span></strong><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">首要</span>告别了外卖，<span style="color: black;">每日</span>吃得营养又健康，再<span style="color: black;">便是</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">不消</span><span style="color: black;">每日</span>想着吃什么。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> 还有省钱，<span style="color: black;">晌午</span>一顿饭，同事需要付10块钱，剩下的<span style="color: black;">机构</span>贴补。晚饭<span style="color: black;">亦</span>随便在<span style="color: black;">机构</span>做点，基本上一天三餐最多</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">15块钱</span></strong><span style="color: black;">伙食费就够。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">在上海，这属于性价比很高的。</span></strong></span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/pgc-image/5e7beca321ff48f684009a6589463003~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1729389192&amp;x-signature=%2BKAfgnmt1oMHdoE9vWFyY7PUk6M%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
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    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">▲阿姨做的午餐</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">除了做饭，阿姨还能打扫卫生</span></strong><span style="color: black;">，<span style="color: black;">有些</span>卫生死角，打扫得很彻底。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">阿姨的<span style="color: black;">花费</span>+买菜的钱，对<span style="color: black;">机构</span>是一项支出，<span style="color: black;">做为</span>老板，为啥我愿意花这个钱？</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">多方面<span style="color: black;">思虑</span>，</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">一方面</span></strong><span style="color: black;">当然让同事花少点钱吃得更好；</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">另一方面</span></strong><span style="color: black;">，为了留住人才，快速发展的<span style="color: black;">周期</span>，核心团队稳定性<span style="color: black;">尤其</span>重要。租的办公室好<span style="color: black;">有些</span>，<span style="color: black;">处理</span>吃饭问题等等，只要能让<span style="color: black;">大众</span>体验好<span style="color: black;">有些</span>，都是我愿意做的。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> <span style="color: black;">这般</span><span style="color: black;">大众</span>天天<span style="color: black;">一块</span>吃饭，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>增进了感情。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">这一项支出多么划算！</span></span></strong></span></p>
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    <h1 style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;">02</h1>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> 说完了<span style="color: black;">机构</span>的阿姨，再说说</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">家里阿姨。</span></strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> 我和刘先生工作<span style="color: black;">尤其</span>忙，家里这几年，家务基本上都是外包，请了一个钟点工阿姨。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> 之前，有一个阿姨合作一年多，后来回老家陪女儿读书了。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">之后，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>就<span style="color: black;">始终</span><span style="color: black;">无</span>碰到<span style="color: black;">尤其</span>合适的阿姨，可是为了生活的方便，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>多找了找，</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">遇到了马阿姨，合作很愉快。</span></strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">其实，我觉得找阿姨，都不是为<span style="color: black;">认识</span>决拖地<span style="color: black;">这般</span>简单的事，否则扫地<span style="color: black;">设备</span>人就<span style="color: black;">能够</span>了，更<span style="color: black;">大都是</span>其他工作。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">马阿姨有三家雇主，都是<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>周边小区，有两家订了<span style="color: black;">晌午</span>和<span style="color: black;">夜晚</span>的时间，我家是早晨，不耽误我出门。 </span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">早晨她做2个小时，帮我准备早餐</span></strong><span style="color: black;">，很营养，蒸山药、紫薯等粗粮，白水煮鸡蛋，蚝油菠菜，<span style="color: black;">或</span>想吃面，就来一个<span style="color: black;">番茄</span>鸡蛋面。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> 她准备早餐的时候，我<span style="color: black;">已然</span><span style="color: black;">起始</span>洗漱，收拾好，正好吃饭。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">而后</span>，她会把我要出门穿的衣服，<span style="color: black;">所有</span>用挂烫机熨烫好。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> 我衣橱里的衣服，她<span style="color: black;">亦</span>帮我整理<span style="color: black;">归类</span>，有几天，我拿了几件毛衣放<span style="color: black;">机构</span>，方便拍短视频，她问我：“你的黄色毛衣、蓝色毛衣，怎么不见了？”</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> 我才<span style="color: black;">发掘</span>，</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">她对我的衣橱，比我还<span style="color: black;">熟练</span>。</span></strong></span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/pgc-image/d363b56f90b14ec9bf4790e378fb65bf~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1729389192&amp;x-signature=Da0yT9I%2F%2BhxtmwzbUsQBCOdPXjY%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">马阿姨把家里擦得一尘不染</span></strong><span style="color: black;">，刘先生的手办都积灰了，她会一个个地擦干净。<span style="color: black;">1星期</span>还帮着换一次被单被罩，总之，承揽了所有家务。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> 阿姨<span style="color: black;">第1</span>天来，我就说了我的<span style="color: black;">需求</span>。</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">在阿姨眼中，我是一个<span style="color: black;">尤其</span>好的雇主，事少。</span></span></strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">事实的真相，她们的标准比我高，我从小在农村<span style="color: black;">成长</span>，和泥土打交道，基本卫生肯定<span style="color: black;">重视</span>，但要说多高的卫生标准，那绝对谈不上，我的标准都是跟着阿姨拔高的。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> 只要是我不出门，阿姨没事，都是天天来，</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">一天只需要70块钱，就<span style="color: black;">处理</span>了我的家务问题。</span></strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> <span style="color: black;">咱们</span>家阿姨，三家加起来，<span style="color: black;">一月</span>收入有</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">8000多</span></strong><span style="color: black;">，其他两家都有小孩，她工作的时间长<span style="color: black;">有些</span>。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">她老公在上海做装修，儿子读大学了，她赚的钱够家里开销，老公赚得全都存起来了。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">她很专业，<span style="color: black;">能够</span>挑选雇主</span></strong><span style="color: black;">，要不是我的时间是早晨，<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>人不要的时间段，我<span style="color: black;">基本</span>没机会找她。</span></span></p>
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    <h1 style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;">03</h1>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> 每年我盘点一整年消费时，</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">非常多</span><span style="color: black;">花费</span>都<span style="color: black;">能够</span>省，<span style="color: black;">然则</span>请阿姨的钱绝对不会省。</span></strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">做为</span>职场女性，这让我大大解放了自己，减少<span style="color: black;">各样</span>家庭矛盾。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> 假如我自己<span style="color: black;">每日</span>拿出2小时做家务，<span style="color: black;">1星期</span><span style="color: black;">便是</span>14小时，一年<span style="color: black;">便是</span></span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">728小时</span></strong><span style="color: black;">，这个时间，我真<span style="color: black;">能够</span>做<span style="color: black;">各样</span>有产出的事情，再说，</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">我的精力用在了家务上，不是我<span style="color: black;">善于</span>的，真很难干别的了。</span></strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">这对我来讲是投入产出比很低的一件事，我还会抱怨老公，凭什么<span style="color: black;">仅有</span>我做家务呢？</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> <span style="color: black;">这般</span>的事情，又不是<span style="color: black;">无</span><span style="color: black;">出现</span>过，想当年我<span style="color: black;">由于</span>家务问题和刘先生吵架N</span><span style="color: black;">（N大于等于10）</span><span style="color: black;">次。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">他工作<span style="color: black;">尤其</span>忙，<span style="color: black;">无</span>时间做家务，可不<span style="color: black;">便是</span>我做，可我<span style="color: black;">亦</span>处在事业<span style="color: black;">提升</span>期，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>没<span style="color: black;">那样</span>多时间做家务。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> 最后，引入了第三方，</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">便是</span>阿姨，<span style="color: black;">处理</span>了<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">由于</span>家务<span style="color: black;">诱发</span>的矛盾，这是一个好<span style="color: black;">选取</span>。</span></span></strong></span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/pgc-image/c89edb3fa9ee4527ad3fd7f8b0bfffcd~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1729389192&amp;x-signature=xH2bhpJ52vIrK8hROcwnJjj8Kko%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">当然，过年这几天，阿姨回老家了，我<span style="color: black;">亦</span>没有<span style="color: black;">那样</span>忙了，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>做饭，我和刘先生俩笨笨的人，忙得不<span style="color: black;">也</span>乐乎。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> 除夕<span style="color: black;">夜晚</span>，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>去吃年夜饭，<span style="color: black;">晌午</span>简单在家吃，天一来找我，我给她和刘先生煮了面条，他俩感动坏了， 戏精上身，</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">“<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>这是吃的面吗？不是，吃的是爱。”</span></strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">我把这种理念，分享给<span style="color: black;">非常多</span><span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>，我经常给<span style="color: black;">她们</span>算一笔账，哪怕你单身，<span style="color: black;">1星期</span>让阿姨做一次卫生，<span style="color: black;">能够</span>4小时，一个月不到600块，一年下来，还<span style="color: black;">不足</span>你一个包钱呢，</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">你多一个包的幸福感，可没这个服务好。</span></strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> <span style="color: black;">她们</span>找了钟点工阿姨后，都来感谢我。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> <span style="color: black;">针对</span>职场女性，请阿姨的钱，<span style="color: black;">倘若</span>能让自己从家务里解放出来，并不是一笔大的支出。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">问题是，</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">非常多</span>时候，还需要突破内心的一关。</span></span></strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">咱们</span>让阿姨干活，是不是太那啥了？ </span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">就像<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>去西双版纳玩，看大象表演，有肩部按摩的服务，一个人要花点钱，我就给<span style="color: black;">每一个</span>人点了。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">同事们<span style="color: black;">欠好</span>意思，<span style="color: black;">始终</span>拒绝，我说：“</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">你对<span style="color: black;">她们</span>好，<span style="color: black;">便是</span>付钱，购买<span style="color: black;">她们</span>的服务。</span></strong><span style="color: black;">而不是为了对<span style="color: black;">她们</span>好，不<span style="color: black;">选取</span><span style="color: black;">她们</span>给你按摩。” </span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">我<span style="color: black;">始终</span>的观点，</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">商场</span>是最大的慈善。</span></strong><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">针对</span>阿姨来讲<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是如此，她们<span style="color: black;">便是</span><span style="color: black;">期盼</span>有一份工作，能够赚到钱。</span></span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/pgc-image/3c754768abea420b90e8a1163313a0f6~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1729389192&amp;x-signature=ZhxosdF328qSx0M8JhPgt%2BwZ99Q%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <h1 style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;">04</h1>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">那样</span>，我和阿姨相处得好，总结的经验，经常和<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>们分享。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">尊重阿姨，感谢她的付出</strong></span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/pgc-image/23ff3a85ff0f42c2b59914d1aad6ca0e~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1729389192&amp;x-signature=Wbah6AdIR0ZP6VI3i9%2Bi5bKWyOQ%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> 你和阿姨讲话，哪怕提出来一个<span style="color: black;">需求</span>，都<span style="color: black;">能够</span>平心静气地沟通。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> 好阿姨<span style="color: black;">必定</span>不缺雇主，<span style="color: black;">倘若</span>你太难搞，阿姨都有圈子，将来换的阿姨都是新手<span style="color: black;">或</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>难搞的，你就越来越找不到好阿姨了。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> 过年时，<span style="color: black;">机构</span>的阿姨和家里的阿姨，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>都</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">买了2个礼盒，包了红包，表达<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>的心意</span></strong><span style="color: black;">。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">我都是这么讲，阿姨，感谢过去一年，你对<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>的付出，多亏了你......</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">咱们</span>要尊重别人，激发人内心的善。</span></span></strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> 我很幸运，无论<span style="color: black;">机构</span>还是家里的阿姨，时常让我感动。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> 有一段时间，早餐阿姨天天给我热一杯牛奶，原来我有一次买的牛奶，忘记喝了，<span style="color: black;">无</span>喝完过期倒掉了。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">阿姨提醒我，<span style="color: black;">倘若</span>你不喝就别买了，都浪费了。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">还有，我冬天的<span style="color: black;">有些</span>外套和毛衣，需要干洗，我整理好，<span style="color: black;">始终</span>没时间送干洗店。</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">阿姨看到了，<span style="color: black;">保持</span>给我送过去了，一个早晨又去帮我拿。</span></strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> <span style="color: black;">这般</span>的点点滴滴，总是让我很感动。</span></span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/pgc-image/02162cbb44554c498b043b19bdad3fd3~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1729389192&amp;x-signature=qObdYu92Q4klerUMPaZdQLvwilc%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">阿姨是合作伙伴，不是家人</strong></span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/pgc-image/b8fbc6cc76274e7fa6a18a1a7aa35d70~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1729389192&amp;x-signature=rOdAiInG6pqaQffZWt%2BSyzuEbBE%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> 我一个<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>，请<span style="color: black;">第1</span>个阿姨时，总是觉得阿姨<span style="color: black;">不易</span>，对她<span style="color: black;">尤其</span>好，<span style="color: black;">晌午</span>还留她吃饭，后来，自然不愉快，结束合作，搞得阿姨还有怨气。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">早晨，阿姨进门时，我就告诉她早餐吃啥了，其他<span style="color: black;">需求</span>，前几天早就磨合好了。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">基本上2个小时，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>不聊天的，我都是干自己的事，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>不管她的工作。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> 平常家里的<span style="color: black;">状况</span></span><span style="color: black;">（我的工作等事情）</span><span style="color: black;">，我<span style="color: black;">亦</span>不会多说。</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">阿姨<span style="color: black;">便是</span>我的合作伙伴，我会尊重对方</span></strong><span style="color: black;">，会为对方的服务付费，会逢年过节<span style="color: black;">暗示</span>感谢，会偶尔交流，但把握边界。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">阿姨不是家人，<span style="color: black;">便是</span>合作共赢的关系。</span></span></strong><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">根据</span>家人那套来，矛盾就太多了。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> 举个简单例子，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>对门的阿姨，给邻居看<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，她对<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>很亲，但不惯<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，不给<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>买零食，去商场玩，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>不会惯着<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>花钱玩<span style="color: black;">各样</span>游戏。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">阿姨是合作伙伴</span></strong><span style="color: black;">，看<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>会考<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>证书，<span style="color: black;">供给</span>很专业的服务。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> 那爷爷奶奶，是家人，看<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>呢，<span style="color: black;">她们</span>肯定爱<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的，这点<span style="color: black;">不消</span><span style="color: black;">可疑</span>。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">其他方面呢，我<span style="color: black;">认识</span>到的，一会怕<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>饿了，<span style="color: black;">各样</span>零食吃起来，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>一哭一闹，啥<span style="color: black;">要求</span>都答应。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">阿姨不合适的<span style="color: black;">地区</span>，你<span style="color: black;">能够</span>直接讲</span></strong><span style="color: black;">，<span style="color: black;">然则</span>家人，就不行，你要是直接和老人这么说，马上家庭矛盾走起。</span></span></p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/pgc-image/1cfcc76b35114626ab83afe61862c9ec~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1729389192&amp;x-signature=xud4Hku2J5i7sv7nv%2FE%2FNyWuwMA%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">这一点，我分得很清楚。这个变化是一个过程，我<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是请了几年阿姨后，<span style="color: black;">累积</span>的经验。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">最后，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>要接受分别</span></strong><span style="color: black;">，本质上这是一份工作，阿姨有其他安排，要走的时候，好聚好散。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">不可</span>觉得对她好，就<span style="color: black;">需求</span>她像家人<span style="color: black;">同样</span>，<span style="color: black;">一生</span>和<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>在<span style="color: black;">一块</span>。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> 每年看，我最值得的一项支出，<span style="color: black;">便是</span>请了2个钟点工阿姨，除<span style="color: black;">认识</span>决<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>的生活问题，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>让我思考了<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>问题。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> 当然，<span style="color: black;">是不是</span>请阿姨，<span style="color: black;">按照</span>自己<span style="color: black;">状况</span>来，这是我的<span style="color: black;">状况</span>，<span style="color: black;">期盼</span>给你<span style="color: black;">有些</span>启发。</span></span></p>

查看完整版本: 我最值得的一项支出，便是请了2个钟点工阿姨