其中国父母还在纵容孩儿玩手机时，法国政府却公开干了这件事
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">2018年7月30日，正沉浸在暑假<span style="color: black;">欢快</span>时光里的法国<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>们，<span style="color: black;">忽然</span>收到了一份“惊心动魄”的爱心礼物：</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">法国<span style="color: black;">百姓</span>议会表决<span style="color: black;">经过</span>了一项新法案，全面禁止幼儿园、小学和初中学生在校园内<span style="color: black;">运用</span>智能手机、平板电脑、智能手表等<span style="color: black;">各样</span><span style="color: black;">拥有</span>联网功能的通讯设备！</span></strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">经过</span>行政立法的手段，强制禁止中小学生在校内<span style="color: black;">运用</span>手机，这不得不令<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>中国人自叹不如了……<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>学校对学生管理的严格程度，向来是谁都不服的啊！</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">这下可好，中国<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>最<span style="color: black;">大都是</span>在课堂上玩手机被<span style="color: black;">发掘</span>后暂时没收，人家法国直接就违法了</span></strong><span style="color: black;">……就算是下课及午休时间，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>不行！</span></p><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/usXGdMRbGDrJic3Exic7pzVjEI1eibWlia2xFKcxTPjUBHh5VxFZ48uHCiacho4kqdEvrQzhia5ehQz5OTInbgGHjYXg/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">我不<span style="color: black;">晓得</span>法国家长们获悉这个禁令后是什么心情，但我在脑补：会不会有中国家长听到这个<span style="color: black;">信息</span>后，想把自己家的小手机党们送到法国去上学呢？一切皆有可能。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">况且</span>，<span style="color: black;">日前</span>德国<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">已然</span><span style="color: black;">起始</span>就禁止中小学生在学校<span style="color: black;">运用</span>手机的问题展开了公开讨论。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">小小的一部手机，怎么就惹恼了这些国家，并<span style="color: black;">提升</span>到国家层面呢？<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>先看一个实验。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">一个耗时10年的科学实验，</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">结论震惊家长！</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">2008年，美国一位心理学家<span style="color: black;">起步</span>了一项专门<span style="color: black;">科研</span>手机对<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>影响的科学实验：</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">他从全美<span style="color: black;">区别</span>地区的中下阶层家庭中挑选出100名<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，将<span style="color: black;">她们</span>分<span style="color: black;">成为了</span>两组：<span style="color: black;">第1</span>组50名是接触不到手机的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，第二组50名是对手机痴迷的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>。<span style="color: black;">而后</span>对这两组<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>进行了长达10的跟踪调查。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">2018年，<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">便是</span>10年之后，他<span style="color: black;">颁布</span>了自己的调查结果：</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">第一组50名痴迷手机的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>中，仅仅<span style="color: black;">仅有</span>2名考上了大学；第二组50名接触不到手机的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，几乎<span style="color: black;">所有</span>考入大学，<span style="color: black;">仅有</span>其中三名<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>在高中毕业后，自愿<span style="color: black;">选取</span>打工帮家里减轻<span style="color: black;">包袱</span>。而<span style="color: black;">哪些</span>考入大学的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>们，又有16位<span style="color: black;">得到</span>了学校的全额奖学金。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">结果一<span style="color: black;">颁布</span>，世人震惊！虽然<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">不可</span>以考不考上大学来评判<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的成就，但这<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是一个很重要的考量依据。</span></p><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/usXGdMRbGDrJic3Exic7pzVjEI1eibWlia2xQP0DETRibj3Nd9ZLNdoOArvMz6Gd5vqdfZDM8M6QBY2Bic5uznSwV3icg/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">想毁掉一个<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">给他一部手机就够了！？</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">咱们</span>再来看一组数据：</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>看20分钟的投影，视力平均下降到10.4度近视状态；</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">连续看20分钟液晶电视，视力平均下降到18.8度近视状态；</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">连续玩20分钟平板电脑，视力平均下降到41.7度近视状态；</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">连续玩20分钟手机，视力平均下降到43.8度近视状态。</p><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/usXGdMRbGDrJic3Exic7pzVjEI1eibWlia2xX9DbPFVOrWFoQbbIZuLhrjb97nGKgvSyZJjOD8LxQUP8E5qXHryqpQ/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">手机对<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>心理上的<span style="color: black;">害处</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>非常严重。</span></strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">2017年12月1日，韩国高丽大学的神经放射学教授Hyung Suk Seo在芝加哥北美放射学会年会上<span style="color: black;">颁布</span>，他<span style="color: black;">发掘</span>“网络成瘾”的青少年大脑中的化学物质不平衡，这种不平衡与经历焦虑和抑郁症的人<span style="color: black;">类似</span>。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">况且</span>，<strong style="color: blue;">手机对儿童还有致癌的<span style="color: black;">危害</span>！小孩<span style="color: black;">由于</span><span style="color: black;">处在</span><span style="color: black;">生长</span>期，大脑对手机辐射的吸收量要比成人多60%以上！</strong></span></p><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/usXGdMRbGDrJic3Exic7pzVjEI1eibWlia2xmA0ibdgXia5iaFwTlkfYkicUWicpX83ibiaCjh38OlGhoVlcI8fbpsIic3l7cA/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">还有，不论是<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>沉迷于手机游戏，还是家长离不开手机社交，都会影响双方的情感沟通。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">同期</span>，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">经过</span>手机观看直播/打赏主播/现场另类直播、游戏充值拼装备、追小说追剧、色情网站</strong>等等网上<span style="color: black;">引诱</span>，不一而足。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">咱们</span>该<span style="color: black;">怎样</span>与<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span></strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">一块</span>戒掉手机瘾呢？</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">有些家长看到手机有这么多<span style="color: black;">害处</span>，转身就把小孩的手机没收，以为万事大吉了。</span><span style="color: black;">没<span style="color: black;">那样</span>简单！你<span style="color: black;">晓得</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>迷恋手机的<span style="color: black;">原由</span>是什么吗？不<span style="color: black;">处理</span>根源问题，只是治标不治本罢了。</span></p><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/usXGdMRbGDrJic3Exic7pzVjEI1eibWlia2x3KJsYZibUCTUIib7USkRliaczhichbh61qDwShbqg2VHj4Ht1Y6BD6icG6A/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">经过总结，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>沉迷手机<span style="color: black;">重点</span>有下面几个<span style="color: black;">原由</span>：</span></strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">“爸爸妈妈没时间陪我，手机上有<span style="color: black;">非常多</span><span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>”</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">“<span style="color: black;">每日</span>两点一线的生活太无趣，手机游戏乐趣多多”</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">“学习太枯燥了，手机上啥都有”</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">“爸妈都在玩手机，我才不愿学习呢”</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">“成绩差、压力大，玩手机没<span style="color: black;">那样</span>累”</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">怎么<span style="color: black;">处理</span>呢？</span></strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">要戒掉手机瘾，绝对不是<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>一个人的事情，必须<span style="color: black;">整家</span>总动员，<span style="color: black;">况且</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">首要</span>要从父母<span style="color: black;">起始</span>做起</strong>：</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">01</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">高质量的<span style="color: black;">陪同</span></strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">每日</span>给<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>30分钟的专注<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>，要心无旁骛的倾听、交流。中国大部分<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>是有父母的孤儿，尽管有父母<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>在身边，但却<span style="color: black;">无</span>认同、<span style="color: black;">无</span>理解、<span style="color: black;">无</span>传递能量给<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">02</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">典范</span>的力量</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">倘若</span><span style="color: black;">成人</span>回家后机不离手，却声嘶力竭地<span style="color: black;">需求</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>远离手机，可能吗？</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">03</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">用游戏或公约的方式</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">例如</span>约法三章，<span style="color: black;">每日</span>只能玩手机30分钟，到时间就关机。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">04</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">增多</span>户外活动/运动</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">无</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>不<span style="color: black;">爱好</span>出门的，培养他一到两个运动<span style="color: black;">兴趣</span>。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">05</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">寻找替代品</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">倘若</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">爱好</span>用手机看书，就用纸质书代替；<span style="color: black;">倘若</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">爱好</span>玩游戏，<span style="color: black;">能够</span>教他象棋、围棋。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">06</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">制定科学的作息时间表</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">几点吃饭，几点写作业，几点下楼溜达，几点洗澡睡觉，<span style="color: black;">每日</span>把生活作息安排得科学而有序，没<span style="color: black;">有没有</span>聊的时间，自然就不会刷手机了。</p><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/usXGdMRbGDrJic3Exic7pzVjEI1eibWlia2xv3Hic5iaAjbUA95AicKA7uLgPeNbiaAgvRibG2U9CZbicPQsOnRSdNgK8G0w/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">人类发展的历史证明，“<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">无</span>任何力量能毁掉下一代，除了上一代。</strong>”</span></p>
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