“妈妈，我为么要做家务”，这是我听过最好的回答
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">（<span style="color: black;">源自</span>：乐昌妇联）</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">近期</span>刷到网上一个叫“胖胖小鱼”的宝藏小男孩，小小年纪，<span style="color: black;">已然</span><span style="color: black;">持有</span>了几百万粉丝。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">从9岁<span style="color: black;">起始</span>，他<span style="color: black;">便是</span>家里掌勺的“专业大厨”了：西式牛排、腌辣白菜、拉凉皮、蒜蓉大虾<span style="color: black;">这般</span><span style="color: black;">繁杂</span>的菜都能信手拈来，煎炸烹煮，无一不通。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">网友看过视频后纷纷怒赞：“30岁的我自愧不如，煮饭都不<span style="color: black;">晓得</span>下多少水”“我有这么好的娃就好了”。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">但<span style="color: black;">亦</span>有不少人<span style="color: black;">暗示</span>质疑和反对，认为<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>应该把时间和精力放在学习上，干活这么累很影响长身体。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">殊不知，相比知识的学习，<span style="color: black;">实质</span>生活能力才是教育中不容<span style="color: black;">忽略</span>的<span style="color: black;">基本</span>。 </span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">不让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做家务 耽误了多少优秀<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的<span style="color: black;">将来</span>？</strong></span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">看似简单的生活技能，其实蕴藏着最深刻的人生哲理。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">试想，一个<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">倘若</span>连独立<span style="color: black;">存活</span>和自理能力都<span style="color: black;">无</span>，怎么去面对<span style="color: black;">将来</span>生活的风雨和苦难呢？怎么<span style="color: black;">作为</span>生活的强者呢？</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">许多家长过度溺爱<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，从小舍不得<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做家务，不想让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>受苦，结果把<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>培养<span style="color: black;">成为了</span>“巨婴”，反而<span style="color: black;">成为了</span>最大的苦。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">做饭<span style="color: black;">寓意</span>着<span style="color: black;">存活</span>，家务<span style="color: black;">寓意</span>着自理，最起码的自理能力都<span style="color: black;">没法</span>学会，哪怕<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>学历再优秀，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是一场空。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">咱们</span>明白父母望子成龙的厚望，但盯着<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的成绩，而忽略了对<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>动手能力的培养，<span style="color: black;">最后</span>只会<span style="color: black;">作为</span>坑害<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的绊脚石。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">父母对<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的爱，<span style="color: black;">最后</span>目的是“分离”。教会他做家务，便是教会他谋生技能，是<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>独立成长，坚强面对<span style="color: black;">将来</span>的风雨的主心骨。</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">教会<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>自力更生 才是对<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">一辈子</span>负责</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">在父母眼里，家务活<span style="color: black;">隐匿</span>着些许危险，怕<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>磕着碰着，担心他被刀具伤到；但<span style="color: black;">便是</span>这些<span style="color: black;">隐匿</span>小小困难的琐事，<span style="color: black;">才可</span>让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>在实践中，学得最有<span style="color: black;">道理</span>的生活哲理。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">有先见之明的家长，早早就<span style="color: black;">起始</span>了对<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做家务能力的培养，<span style="color: black;">熬炼</span>各项能力。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">持有</span><span style="color: black;">存活</span>技能，本身<span style="color: black;">便是</span>送给<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>最好的成年礼。当有一天<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>不在身边，<span style="color: black;">她们</span>依旧<span style="color: black;">能够</span>好好照顾自己，灿烂地过完这<span style="color: black;">一辈子</span>。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">对<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">来讲</span>，家务活是<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>一项很好的、手脑身体并用的全技能训练项目。这个过程中，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>不仅<span style="color: black;">能够</span>学会识物，还能主动思考<span style="color: black;">怎样</span>把家务做得更好更快。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">久而久之，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>就自动培养<span style="color: black;">认识</span>决问题的<span style="color: black;">规律</span>能力、专注力和动手能力。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">从长远来看，<span style="color: black;">倘若</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>以后泡得了书房，下得了厨房，能担当，有责任，<span style="color: black;">那样</span><span style="color: black;">将来</span><span style="color: black;">必定</span>很幸福，跟ta在<span style="color: black;">一块</span>的人<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">必定</span>会很幸福。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">由于</span>从小就干家务活的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，能体会别人的辛苦，具备共情力和感恩之心。<span style="color: black;">这般</span>的人，自己有担当有责任心，伴侣<span style="color: black;">亦</span>会很幸福。</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">什么年龄<span style="color: black;">起始</span>做家务？</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>从2-3岁起，就<span style="color: black;">已然</span>有了<span style="color: black;">基本</span>的自我认知和自我<span style="color: black;">认识</span>。此时，家长们应该放手让他<span style="color: black;">起始</span><span style="color: black;">有些</span>力所能及的家务。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">倘若</span>一个<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>在15、16岁才<span style="color: black;">起始</span>做家务，那<span style="color: black;">常常</span>会适得其反。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">心理学家塞德兹说：“人如同陶瓷器<span style="color: black;">同样</span>，幼儿期就好比制造陶瓷器的粘土，给予什么样的教育就会成<span style="color: black;">为何</span>样的雏形。”</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">帮<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做得再多，不如在他小的时候，教给他一个终身受益的本领。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">毕竟这个世界，总是更优待<span style="color: black;">哪些</span>独立自立、<span style="color: black;">存活</span>技能满分的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">倘若</span>你真的爱<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，从今天<span style="color: black;">起始</span>，不要再包办他的一切。让他学着做<span style="color: black;">有些</span>家务，这才是更好的爱<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的方式。</span></p>
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