50岁阿姨自述:当住家保母每月8000,虽然挣钱不少,可过得很纠结
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">针对</span>大<span style="color: black;">都数</span>中年人<span style="color: black;">来讲</span>,50岁<span style="color: black;">已然</span>是最佳的<span style="color: black;">离休</span>年纪了。可对我这个50岁的大龄阿姨<span style="color: black;">来讲</span>,却别无<span style="color: black;">选取</span>,只能在别人家里当起了住家<span style="color: black;">保母</span>,过着游离于主人和雇员之间的尴尬生活。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">虽然<span style="color: black;">每一个</span>月能拿到8000元的薪水,算是比<span style="color: black;">通常</span>打工阶层高出不少。但相较于辛劳付出,这份薪水实在是太过于微薄了。更让人纠结的是,<span style="color: black;">做为</span>一名<span style="color: black;">保母</span>我必须时刻忍让委屈,在主人家里过着几乎<span style="color: black;">无</span>尊严可言的生活。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">从小在农村<span style="color: black;">成长</span>的我,受教育程度并不高,<span style="color: black;">青年</span>时就做过不少体力活。直到30多岁时,我才辗转来到城里打工。起初做的是家家托儿所的保育员,工资<span style="color: black;">仅有</span>2000多元,收入很是<span style="color: black;">通常</span>。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">好在<span style="color: black;">机构</span><span style="color: black;">薪水</span>还不错,<span style="color: black;">每一个</span>月都有节假日<span style="color: black;">补贴</span>和其他<span style="color: black;">各样</span>福利,生活<span style="color: black;">亦</span>渐渐好转起来。可没过两年,家里的老人就<span style="color: black;">起始</span>身体每况日下,<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>一家人的经济开支急剧<span style="color: black;">增多</span>。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">为了应付这笔庞大的医疗开支,我不得不辞去了托儿所的工作,改行做起了住家阿姨。最初一家人<span style="color: black;">基本</span>找不到合适的阿姨,只好自己亲自上阵。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">[回忆]</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">"记得刚<span style="color: black;">起始</span>的那段时间,我<span style="color: black;">每日</span>都累得要命。一家人轮流照顾老人和做家务,几乎都<span style="color: black;">已然</span>精疲力尽了。那阵子收入又少,实在是太困难了!"</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">就<span style="color: black;">这般</span>在家里东拼西凑了近两年后,三个<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>都<span style="color: black;">已然</span><span style="color: black;">成长</span>成人,<span style="color: black;">起始</span>分别在外租房独立生活了。我和老伴两口子便<span style="color: black;">起始</span><span style="color: black;">独自</span><span style="color: black;">思虑</span>,<span style="color: black;">是不是</span>应该出去务工贴补家用。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">最后<span style="color: black;">经过</span>人际介绍,我找到了一家在省城的住家<span style="color: black;">保母</span>的工作。主人是一对<span style="color: black;">青年</span><span style="color: black;">夫妇</span>,<span style="color: black;">她们</span>想在家里请一个专职的阿姨,负责照顾两个<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>和做家务。月薪高达8000元,人钱统统包吃住。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">[感受]</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">"拿到这个月薪实在是太高兴了!没想到在这个年纪还能挣到比<span style="color: black;">青年</span>时高出几倍的钱,着实激动万分。<span style="color: black;">不外</span>跟着别人家做<span style="color: black;">保母</span>,心里总归是有些别扭。"</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">8000元的月薪对普通打工者无疑是天文数字了,可对我这名50岁的住家<span style="color: black;">保母</span><span style="color: black;">来讲</span>,付出的代价是巨大的。<span style="color: black;">每日</span>从清晨5点就得<span style="color: black;">起始</span>忙活,<span style="color: black;">始终</span>忙到<span style="color: black;">夜晚</span>11点多<span style="color: black;">才可</span><span style="color: black;">休憩</span>。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">主人家对阿姨的<span style="color: black;">需求</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>是相当高的,无论做饭、洗衣还是<span style="color: black;">保母</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>,哪一个环节稍有疏漏都会挨顿臭骂。尤其是女主人,总是对我这个老年人指手画脚,动不动就破口大骂,让我颇感委屈。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">[怨言]</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">"嘿,她们<span style="color: black;">便是</span>太<span style="color: black;">青年</span>太娇生惯养了,对做家务的辛苦<span style="color: black;">基本</span>体会不到。要不是实在太缺钱,我早就离开这个是非之地了!"</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">更让我感到无奈的是,住在别人家里总是感觉格格不入,<span style="color: black;">无</span>自己的私人空间。房间虽然宽敞,却<span style="color: black;">亦</span>只能睡在小阁楼上。起居<span style="color: black;">膳食</span>都得遵从主人的安排和<span style="color: black;">需求</span>,别说自己的生活习惯了,连做几道家乡菜<span style="color: black;">亦</span>不太方便。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">做为</span>一名50岁的中年<span style="color: black;">女性</span>,我的生理<span style="color: black;">需要</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>变得越来越大。可住在别人家里,洗澡如厕<span style="color: black;">乃至</span>生理期都得格外避讳,真让人觉得羞愧万分。最郁闷的是<span style="color: black;">每一个</span>月只能给家里寄2000元,工资的大部分还是被迫花在主人家。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">但即便如此,我<span style="color: black;">亦</span>不得不硬着头皮继续留在<span style="color: black;">这儿</span>做<span style="color: black;">保母</span>。<span style="color: black;">由于</span>如今家中的开支越来越大,<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>当初的那点积蓄已所剩无几,而老伴的收入<span style="color: black;">更加是</span>微薄到无力维系生计。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">主人给的钱还好勉强够<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>一家四老人吃吃用用。<span style="color: black;">虽然说</span><span style="color: black;">做为</span><span style="color: black;">保母</span>的生活过得确实很纠结,但我只能忍了。毕竟<span style="color: black;">这般</span><span style="color: black;">最少</span>还有钱<span style="color: black;">源自</span>,口粮是有<span style="color: black;">保证</span>的。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">[自我安慰]</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">"嗨,这不<span style="color: black;">便是</span>命么?人老了就这点出路,还是要学会知足常乐吧。只要家人有干净卫生的居住环境,有足够的钱供养老人就行了。"</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">每当我感到生活的艰辛时,我常常是<span style="color: black;">这般</span>安慰自己的。是啊,过去我<span style="color: black;">亦</span>曾一度混得风生水起,对<span style="color: black;">此刻</span>的际遇感到万分痛心。但<span style="color: black;">存活</span>终归是头等大事,只要家人还有温饱,我<span style="color: black;">亦</span>就释然了。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">当然,我对<span style="color: black;">将来</span>还是充满了期待。就在两个月后,孙子就要参加中考了。到时候只要他考上重点高中,我就<span style="color: black;">能够</span>光明正大地辞去这份辛苦的<span style="color: black;">保母</span>工作了。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">那个时候,我就<span style="color: black;">能够</span>彻底解放自由,安心享受幸福的晚年生活。不必再给富人家做牛做马,<span style="color: black;">亦</span>不必忍受<span style="color: black;">哪些</span>无理的臭骂和伺候。想吃啥吃啥,想怎么过日子就怎么过。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">如今的我已年过半百,对生活<span style="color: black;">亦</span>渐有些新的认知。钱固然重要,但并非生活的<span style="color: black;">所有</span>。幸福其实就在你随时随地随手可得的某个小确幸里,只要你懂得取舍和割爱。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">因此</span><span style="color: black;">期盼</span>家里没啥经济<span style="color: black;">源自</span>的中年们,<span style="color: black;">亦</span>都不要放弃生活的<span style="color: black;">期盼</span>。即便孤苦无依,即便遭受颇多苦难,<span style="color: black;">将来</span>的日子<span style="color: black;">亦</span>终将会有转机的。只要耐心等待,<span style="color: black;">保持</span>奋斗,迟早有一天你<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">能够</span>实现自己内心的夙愿,让生活更加美好。</p>
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