f9yx0du 发表于 2024-9-27 07:13:20

有感于让孩儿做家务的副功效


    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-axegupay5k/47ac8d929642455fa1601f380d377df4~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1727364253&amp;x-signature=zbbt2OV%2Fzx9JT0esfTS53phPjFs%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">相信大<span style="color: black;">都数</span>父母都被教育要让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做家务,既能培养<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的生活自理能力,<span style="color: black;">亦</span>能培养<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>对父母付出的感恩之情,还能让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">晓得</span>生活中的<span style="color: black;">很难</span>。总之是一举多得,我<span style="color: black;">这般</span>爱学习的人自然全盘接受,<span style="color: black;">亦</span>很彻底地落实到行动中了。</p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">姐姐从小乖巧懂事,3岁前我还上班就请了阿婆帮忙带她,阿婆<span style="color: black;">尤其</span>宠爱她自然不舍得让她做家务,我<span style="color: black;">亦</span>只是象征性地教她洗手绢什么的。等到弟弟出生后,我就<span style="color: black;">起始</span>做全职宝妈,一个人带两个<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">尤其</span>辛苦,娃爸还经常出差。于是我<span style="color: black;">起始</span>教会姐姐用电煮饭、炒简单的菜肴、扫地洗内衣袜子等等。</p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/31b52a0df4af4338b310aee8f1dd040b~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1727364253&amp;x-signature=3tS7DzPrdJMEU%2BHk4Q59DSE2aFc%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">回过头再看,那时我对姐姐的<span style="color: black;">需求</span>还是比较高的,<span style="color: black;">由于</span>是<span style="color: black;">第1</span>个<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>,自己<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">无</span>育儿经验,总担心教育<span style="color: black;">欠好</span>,就对照书本<span style="color: black;">需求</span>来,还好姐姐智商情商都在线,她很会察言观色,对我的<span style="color: black;">需求</span>都能做到。姐姐是那种只要她愿意就<span style="color: black;">能够</span>做得好的比较聪明的小孩,她做<span style="color: black;">欠好</span><span style="color: black;">便是</span>想偷懒了。</p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">尤其弟弟还小时,<span style="color: black;">无</span>人帮衬,我不仅身体累心<span style="color: black;">亦</span>累,有一阵子和娃爸关系<span style="color: black;">亦</span>很紧张,他不仅不帮我还<span style="color: black;">各样</span>找茬,我俩时常会吵架,这一切让我的心情非常糟糕,而这些坏<span style="color: black;">心情</span>大多发在姐姐身上了。</p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">此刻</span>回想起来,觉得对姐姐有些愧疚,还好<span style="color: black;">由于</span>严格<span style="color: black;">需求</span>,姐姐<span style="color: black;">此刻</span>内心反而很强大,倒是歪打正着了。姐姐<span style="color: black;">此刻</span>基本家务都会,只是上初中后没时间做<span style="color: black;">亦</span>不舍得让她做了。</p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/f862b448d54444588e422f90b14485d7~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1727364253&amp;x-signature=FdTrFow%2F0j0G4xp2u5Bxmxz9O%2Fc%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">昨晚我告诉姐姐,<span style="color: black;">由于</span>周日陪弟弟上兴趣班,没在家做<span style="color: black;">各样</span>琐碎的家务,我的产量非常高,2篇<span style="color: black;">文案</span>、1条视频、8个微头条,<span style="color: black;">况且</span>并不觉得紧张。姐姐说她以后不愿意做家务,我便趁机教育她,想不做家务就要找个好工作,想要有好工作就要考上名牌大学!哈哈,这不就寓教于乐了。</p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">这倒是我没想到的,<span style="color: black;">由于</span>让姐姐做家务<span style="color: black;">引起</span>她不愿意做家务,而要为此<span style="color: black;">奋斗</span>学习!不愿意做家务<span style="color: black;">成为了</span>姐姐学习的动力之一了。</p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">以前姐姐要做的家务就由弟弟全盘接手了。弟弟与姐姐相反,他一心想做好却总是做<span style="color: black;">欠好</span>,为此我没少骂他。弟弟做家务很积极,经常会抢着做,但<span style="color: black;">不可</span>让人完全<span style="color: black;">安心</span>,我得重新<span style="color: black;">检测</span>,心好累啊!可他态度很好啊,唉!</p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/6469ed5e35b24c4bb2df0822cb36fe28~noop.image?_iz=58558&amp;from=article.pc_detail&amp;lk3s=953192f4&amp;x-expires=1727364253&amp;x-signature=llSw2X9MfZkStU1UvoKCY1WfXns%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">此刻</span>弟弟出门只要有东西要拿,都是他拿,家里的垃圾他会主动拎出去扔掉,很积极帮我和姐姐取东西......态度很积极,还是做家务能力有待进一步<span style="color: black;">加强</span>。做家务时,我就会给他洗脑:“<span style="color: black;">此刻</span>家务做习惯了,以后结婚了<span style="color: black;">亦</span>能做,你<span style="color: black;">妻子</span><span style="color: black;">才可</span><span style="color: black;">容易</span>些。”培养弟弟做家务,为他找媳妇做好充分的准备!</p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">瞧瞧</span><span style="color: black;">咱们</span>家姐弟俩做家务的<span style="color: black;">副作用</span>,<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是<span style="color: black;">哪些</span>教育专家都没想到的吧!</p>
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