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开年第1爽剧《赘婿》爆火：这才是“新时代男性”该有的样子

    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/mmF0rTjMmmLJia81zkibO8ODjYbj7ZBB17zMDOHa6j15aC3Nf86mFhia3BAqb0HlJXSAJiaOpCla1VE4sT26ISwamQ/640?wx_fmt=gif&amp;tp=webp&amp;wxfrom=5&amp;wx_lazy=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">近期</span>，国产电视剧《赘婿》爆火，连续十多天拿下网络剧单日热度冠军。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">不少网友都直呼：“太下饭了！”“开年<span style="color: black;">第1</span>爽剧！”</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">小仙女<span style="color: black;">亦</span>趁热追了几集，印象深刻的是其中一个情节：</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">郭麒麟饰演的男主角宁毅，是一个入赘的<span style="color: black;">姑爷</span>，处处要唯“婆家”苏家和妻子苏小姐是从。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">有一回，宁毅<span style="color: black;">由于</span>去了趟艺馆听曲儿，被苏小姐送到男德学院。男德学院里，丈夫们要勤恳学习做饭、刺绣、做家务、照顾小孩，还要天天朗诵《赘婿经》：</span></p><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/mmF0rTjMmmJe6xvvmP7awasaxrWIiaRfk10QYtqFcSS07lGcTW8EqkX3Bb9CYgjYtchXibFcicL4ibDlWLlvpgdHvw/640?wx_fmt=png&amp;tp=webp&amp;wxfrom=5&amp;wx_lazy=1&amp;wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">丈夫承担顾家的角色，</span>妻子</span>在外既能“厮杀”职场、为梦想拼搏，回家又能享受温暖舒适的家庭生活，难怪<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>女生看完都觉得很爽！</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">然而，事实是，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>只能在影视剧里爽一爽。</span></p><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/mmF0rTjMmmKeRWAR9CNiaQtDKBIh8OlslRJIDZUicqOETp983wSAkXicqLYJKWjCy6gzFy8ia6bQneHeDiaFCcDx3sw/640?wx_fmt=png&amp;tp=webp&amp;wxfrom=5&amp;wx_lazy=1&amp;wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">做家务的男人，</span></strong></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">还是不做家务的男人？</span></strong></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">小仙女看过<span style="color: black;">这般</span>一组数据：</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">中国女性的就业率世界<span style="color: black;">第1</span>，中国男性做家务的时间却排名世界倒数第四；</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">中国女性平均做家务时间为2小时6分钟，男性为45分钟，女性比男性多81分钟。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">便是</span>说，<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>女性不仅要在职场上拼搏，累了一天回到家，还要承担大部分家务。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">为了观察和探讨这个现象，爱奇艺做了一个综艺，叫《做家务的男人》。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">名字听上去<span style="color: black;">特别有</span>意思，然而，打开<span style="color: black;">第1</span>季<span style="color: black;">第1</span>集，<strong style="color: blue;">看到的却是两个完全不做家务的男人：</strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">做为</span>嘉宾的魏大勋父子上来就以“沙发二子”出道，一整天都粘在沙发上，直到要吃饭才起身。</span></p><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/mmF0rTjMmmK8mAYiarPiayC6t3FRWVH8SMelFMubouMywl1eERbYQv2LRE9BALlQ1EhTia7ibNmDyYzjV2X2H6t8hg/640?wx_fmt=png&amp;tp=webp&amp;wxfrom=5&amp;wx_lazy=1&amp;wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">而另一边，魏妈妈却像个陀螺<span style="color: black;">同样</span>忙得停不下来：洗菜做饭、收拾儿子的行李、洗衣服、晾衣服……</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">魏大勋还做足“表面功夫”，让妈妈坐下来<span style="color: black;">休憩</span>，直接被魏妈怼回去：<strong style="color: blue;">“我的活干不完，怎么坐着？”</strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">不管是弹幕还是社交网络上，都有不少人<span style="color: black;">暗示</span>这种“妈妈忙个<span style="color: black;">一直</span>、爸爸和<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>完全不干活”的状态，和自己家一模<span style="color: black;">同样</span>。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">在后期采访中，魏妈妈<span style="color: black;">亦</span>无奈地<span style="color: black;">暗示</span>：“中国传统的<span style="color: black;">女性</span><span style="color: black;">便是</span><span style="color: black;">这般</span>。”</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">说完她又<span style="color: black;">弥补</span>了一句：“但<span style="color: black;">期盼</span>下一代不要<span style="color: black;">这般</span>。”</strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">好在，变化<span style="color: black;">亦</span>确实在<span style="color: black;">出现</span>。以前家务默认都是妻子、妈妈在做，<span style="color: black;">然则</span>新时代，“谁来做家务”这个问题又重新摆在<span style="color: black;">每一个</span>家庭面前。</span></p><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/mmF0rTjMmmKeRWAR9CNiaQtDKBIh8OlslGXPQltqq4A1AG7eSf8ALticTu5D9qJib0ich5Gll7RedPiaDhyibo9AuJNA/640?wx_fmt=png&amp;tp=webp&amp;wxfrom=5&amp;wx_lazy=1&amp;wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">家务琐事</span></strong></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">作为</span>中国<span style="color: black;">夫妇</span>离婚的<span style="color: black;">第1</span>大<span style="color: black;">原由</span></span></strong></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">《做家务的男人》的先导片，提出了一个看上去有点<span style="color: black;">难以置信</span>的现象：<strong style="color: blue;">家务琐事，<span style="color: black;">作为</span>中国<span style="color: black;">夫妇</span>离婚的<span style="color: black;">第1</span>大<span style="color: black;">原由</span>。</strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">不外</span>仔细想想，这<span style="color: black;">背面</span>反而反映了时代的变化。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">以前，“男主外、女主内”的观念深入人心，几乎是默认的<span style="color: black;">结婚</span>模式。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">在这种模式下，男性在公共<span style="color: black;">行业</span>活动，<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">便是</span><span style="color: black;">一般</span>说的“<span style="color: black;">挣钱</span>养家”；女性则被局限在私人<span style="color: black;">行业</span>，即家庭中活动，需要承担起生育和抚养<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>、照顾老人和丈夫、洗衣做饭等家务琐事的责任。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">此刻</span>，越来越多的女性，</span></strong><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">从私人<span style="color: black;">行业</span>进入公共<span style="color: black;">行业</span>——她们<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">起始</span>工作、<span style="color: black;">挣钱</span>、和外界<span style="color: black;">出现</span>联结。</strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">但与此<span style="color: black;">同期</span>，女性的家庭义务却<span style="color: black;">无</span>被解除，<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">便是</span>说，女性除了要在职场上和男性竞争外，还要担负起沉重的家务劳动。</span></p><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/mmF0rTjMmmK8mAYiarPiayC6t3FRWVH8SM4LmkpJSqQNsTPFJmtIPibH4nxoAVJibcZrCvCOkQ62CHic3Dc1Vqib3wxg/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&amp;tp=webp&amp;wxfrom=5&amp;wx_lazy=1&amp;wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">复旦大学社会学系副教授沈奕斐在她的《透过性别看世界》一书中用了一个很形象的形容：</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">“就像抱着<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>拿着扫把和男人比赛跑，女性觉得非常<span style="color: black;">疲劳</span>和辛苦。”</span></strong></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">日剧《深夜的奇葩<span style="color: black;">爱情</span>图鉴》，女生对不做家务、一回家就瘫着、还整天喊累的男<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>有一段非常犀利的吐槽：</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/mmF0rTjMmmK8mAYiarPiayC6t3FRWVH8SMsFToBUJIWOQ0jxhDjSaCJDNNvoIkMk2MNzSuibrFagbBC6n1rA7IRSA/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&amp;tp=webp&amp;wxfrom=5&amp;wx_lazy=1&amp;wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">这段吐槽金句说出了无数女性的心声，在社交网络上被疯转。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">因此呢</span>，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>不难想象，矛盾<span style="color: black;">便是</span>这么<span style="color: black;">出现</span>的：</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">女性的观念和行动都<span style="color: black;">已然</span><span style="color: black;">出现</span>了巨大的转变，男性却还停留在传统的“男主外、女主内”模式里，不愿主动承担家务活。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">新的爱情和<span style="color: black;">结婚</span>模式迫切地需要被提出来。</span></strong></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">一样</span><span style="color: black;">做为</span>家庭<span style="color: black;">表率</span>，第二季《做家务的男人》里，张继科一家的表现就和魏大勋一家完全<span style="color: black;">区别</span>。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">在张继科家里，爸爸才是负责做家务的那个人。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">浇灌菜园、喂鸡饲料、安装门帘、洗衣做饭，统统都被张爸包了。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">张妈妈就负责美和享受，被宠得很幸福。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">&nbsp;<img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/mmF0rTjMmmK8mAYiarPiayC6t3FRWVH8SMRmGHYJrUOGVDGlH0aArMllu1X0uc7qLhqIib7W5d2hrGk9xraZFJrdw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&amp;tp=webp&amp;wxfrom=5&amp;wx_lazy=1&amp;wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">做为</span>幸福故事的女主人公，张妈<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">暗示</span>：<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">结婚</span>幸福的秘诀，<span style="color: black;">便是</span>应该丈夫<span style="color: black;">更加多</span>分担家庭中的家务，<span style="color: black;">仅有</span><span style="color: black;">这般</span>，家人之间的相处<span style="color: black;">才可</span>变得更加和谐。</strong></span></p><span style="color: black;"><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/mmF0rTjMmmKfMHzT4cBVrykwEG3UXxfGCSGibVTtf3N9mZfSEXdzERKjib1mCmjicBhEacSwIdn8HmkiahVLuhTfCA/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&amp;tp=webp&amp;wxfrom=5&amp;wx_lazy=1&amp;wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></span>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">爱情和<span style="color: black;">结婚</span>新脚本</span></strong></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">关于爱情和<span style="color: black;">结婚</span>中的冲突，复旦大学社会学系副教授沈奕斐提出过一个理论，让我觉得耳目一新。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">她说：“爱情到最后，所有的冲突都不是爱不爱的问题，而是来自对角色的想象。”</strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">每一个</span>人脑海里都有一个对男<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>/丈夫/爸爸是怎么样、女<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>/妻子/妈妈是怎么样的想象。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">当两人对角色的想象<span style="color: black;">出现</span>冲突时，矛盾就<span style="color: black;">显现</span>了。</span></strong></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">例如</span>，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>对传统女性角色的想象，<span style="color: black;">便是</span>要做一个贤妻良母；对传统男性角色的想象是养家，<span style="color: black;">期盼</span>他在事业和经济上<span style="color: black;">得到</span>成功。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">现代女性自我成长后，更追求独立，她们<span style="color: black;">期盼</span>自己<span style="color: black;">能够</span><strong style="color: blue;">超越传统女性角色</strong>：不只是在私人<span style="color: black;">行业</span>内部实现个人价值，<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">能够</span>在公共<span style="color: black;">行业</span>有所追求；</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">男性的自我成长，却<span style="color: black;">得到</span>了一个<strong style="color: blue;">加强版的传统角色</strong>：<span style="color: black;">倘若</span>不成功、没房子、没车子，是不行的。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">这是<span style="color: black;">她们</span>对自我角色的想象。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">然则</span>另一半对<span style="color: black;">她们</span>角色的想象，却完全<span style="color: black;">区别</span>。</span></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">女性<span style="color: black;">由于</span>自己超越传统角色</span><span style="color: black;">，</span><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">因此</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">期盼</span>男性</span><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">能够</span>超越；男性<span style="color: black;">由于</span>自己是加强版传统角色，<span style="color: black;">因此</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">期盼</span>女性<span style="color: black;">能够</span>是加强版传统角色。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/mmF0rTjMmmK8mAYiarPiayC6t3FRWVH8SMh4wPdLDBzoSJs6882yBTrGVI8gEjsB8ibst9CVpJYsrkkxNLFJicnS2w/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&amp;tp=webp&amp;wxfrom=5&amp;wx_lazy=1&amp;wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">事实上，这种模式不仅对女性是一种压迫，对男性<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是一种压迫。</span></strong></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">在《男性妥协》一书里，作者对<span style="color: black;">哪些</span>承担了大部分家务的丈夫进行采访调查，<span style="color: black;">发掘</span><span style="color: black;">她们</span>都会轻描淡写地描述自己做家务这件事：</span><span style="color: black;">“只是她加班的时候帮下忙”、“别人问起来我都会否定”、“被<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span><span style="color: black;">晓得</span>我帮<span style="color: black;">妻子</span>洗内</span><span style="color: black;">裤，是要被嘲笑的。”</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">作者<span style="color: black;">暗示</span>：“这些在家庭<span style="color: black;">行业</span><span style="color: black;">装扮</span>了平等伴侣角色的男性，不会被当作性别平等的先锋，而是被邻居和同伴讥讽为‘<span style="color: black;">妻子</span>奴’。”</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">而更健康的、对两性都更友好的方式是什么呢？</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">便是</span>两者都要超越传统角色，当女性<span style="color: black;">更加多</span>地从私人<span style="color: black;">行业</span>走进公共<span style="color: black;">行业</span>时，男性<span style="color: black;">亦</span>应该被<span style="color: black;">准许</span><span style="color: black;">更加多</span>地进入私人<span style="color: black;">行业</span>，<span style="color: black;">这般</span><span style="color: black;">才可</span>达到新的平衡。</span></strong></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">米勒·伯尔曼在《亲密关系》一书中<span style="color: black;">按照</span>数据<span style="color: black;">亦</span>得出了相同的结论：</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">妻子承担了<span style="color: black;">所有</span>家务<span style="color: black;">或</span>大部分家务时，其幸福<span style="color: black;">结婚</span>感为负值，反之<span style="color: black;">也</span>然。<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">仅有</span>在<span style="color: black;">夫妇</span><span style="color: black;">一起</span>协作，或家务承担大体<span style="color: black;">平衡</span>时，双方的幸福<span style="color: black;">结婚</span>感都表现为正值。</strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">毕竟，家庭是两个人的家庭， 家务活<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是两个人的，并不存在“谁帮谁”，这是一种分担，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是一种义务。&nbsp;</span></p><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/mmF0rTjMmmK8mAYiarPiayC6t3FRWVH8SMV6tgwvnoet4MNMN53rSwZrRDPUIkYuKvWibgP2v8xUqiaSiasJjxHaBAA/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&amp;tp=webp&amp;wxfrom=5&amp;wx_lazy=1&amp;wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">聪明的丈夫，会<span style="color: black;">更加多</span>地做家务，把家务当作自己的责任，<span style="color: black;">由于</span>自己<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是家庭的一份子；而聪明的妻子，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>会<span style="color: black;">帮忙</span>丈夫更好地做好家务，让自己省心。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">在《做家务的男人》<span style="color: black;">第1</span>季里，魏爸爸<span style="color: black;">第1</span>次拖地，就直接把拖把放到厨房的洗手台里洗，看得人心里一惊：“这该沾上多少细菌啊！”</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">所说</span>“工欲善其事，必先利其器”，今天小仙女就想给<span style="color: black;">大众</span><span style="color: black;">举荐</span>一个清洁神器——</span><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">Shark</strong><strong style="color: blue;">鲨客蒸汽拖把T8</strong></span><span style="color: black;">。</span></p><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/mmF0rTjMmmJe6xvvmP7awasaxrWIiaRfk5tYRFEEAdRsTK7X0niaLt33BMx6s4NJFFOfyjoBhlLMsDtzxK5DRF9w/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&amp;tp=webp&amp;wxfrom=5&amp;wx_lazy=1&amp;wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">有些人可能对Shark鲨客品牌还不<span style="color: black;">熟练</span>，但它其实是</span><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">美国科技清洁品类<span style="color: black;">营销</span>额<span style="color: black;">第1</span>品牌。</strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">Shark鲨客成立于1998年，22年专注清洁电器。2007年，<span style="color: black;">起始</span>生产<span style="color: black;">第1</span>台蒸汽拖把，技术和口碑<span style="color: black;">始终</span>领先市场。过去10年在北美累计出售超过7800万台，<strong style="color: blue;">相当于一半的家庭都有鲨客的<span style="color: black;">制品</span>。</strong></span></p><img src="data:image/svg+xml,%3C%3Fxml version=1.0 encoding=UTF-8%3F%3E%3Csvg width=1px height=1px viewBox=0 0 1 1 version=1.1 xmlns=http://www.w3.org/2000/svg xmlns:xlink=http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink%3E%3Ctitle%3E%3C/title%3E%3Cg stroke=none stroke-width=1 fill=none fill-rule=evenodd fill-opacity=0%3E%3Cg transform=translate(-249.000000, -126.000000) fill=%23FFFFFF%3E%3Crect x=249 y=126 width=1 height=1%3E%3C/rect%3E%3C/g%3E%3C/g%3E%3C/svg%3E" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">此刻</span>对疫情还<span style="color: black;">不可</span>松懈，杀菌除螨<span style="color: black;">作为</span>首要<span style="color: black;">需要</span>，鲨客的蒸汽拖把刚好<span style="color: black;">能够</span>派上用场，尤其是家里<span style="color: black;">倘若</span>有小孩和宠物，就更需要了。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">鲨客T8蒸汽拖把，<span style="color: black;">能够</span>做到</span><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">20秒均匀出汽，120℃高温清洁</strong></span><span style="color: black;">。经权威检测报告证明，其</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">杀菌率高达99.9%，除螨率高达100%</span></strong><span style="color: black;">。</span></p><img src="data:image/svg+xml,%3C%3Fxml version=1.0 encoding=UTF-8%3F%3E%3Csvg width=1px height=1px viewBox=0 0 1 1 version=1.1 xmlns=http://www.w3.org/2000/svg xmlns:xlink=http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink%3E%3Ctitle%3E%3C/title%3E%3Cg stroke=none stroke-width=1 fill=none fill-rule=evenodd fill-opacity=0%3E%3Cg transform=translate(-249.000000, -126.000000) fill=%23FFFFFF%3E%3Crect x=249 y=126 width=1 height=1%3E%3C/rect%3E%3C/g%3E%3C/g%3E%3C/svg%3E" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">况且</span>，比起其他蒸汽拖把，鲨客<span style="color: black;">持有</span></span><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">独家大蒸汽喷射技术</strong></span><span style="color: black;">，强力蒸汽<span style="color: black;">能够</span>集中一点喷出，<span style="color: black;">因此</span>杀菌除螨力、清洁力都更强。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">不管是</span></strong><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">陈年污渍、凝固油污，还是病菌、螨虫</span></strong></span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">，用大蒸汽喷一喷，都<span style="color: black;">能够</span>被<span style="color: black;">容易</span>“消灭”。</span></strong></p><img src="data:image/svg+xml,%3C%3Fxml version=1.0 encoding=UTF-8%3F%3E%3Csvg width=1px height=1px viewBox=0 0 1 1 version=1.1 xmlns=http://www.w3.org/2000/svg xmlns:xlink=http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink%3E%3Ctitle%3E%3C/title%3E%3Cg stroke=none stroke-width=1 fill=none fill-rule=evenodd fill-opacity=0%3E%3Cg transform=translate(-249.000000, -126.000000) fill=%23FFFFFF%3E%3Crect x=249 y=126 width=1 height=1%3E%3C/rect%3E%3C/g%3E%3C/g%3E%3C/svg%3E" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><img src="data:image/svg+xml,%3C%3Fxml version=1.0 encoding=UTF-8%3F%3E%3Csvg width=1px height=1px viewBox=0 0 1 1 version=1.1 xmlns=http://www.w3.org/2000/svg xmlns:xlink=http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink%3E%3Ctitle%3E%3C/title%3E%3Cg stroke=none stroke-width=1 fill=none fill-rule=evenodd fill-opacity=0%3E%3Cg transform=translate(-249.000000, -126.000000) fill=%23FFFFFF%3E%3Crect x=249 y=126 width=1 height=1%3E%3C/rect%3E%3C/g%3E%3C/g%3E%3C/svg%3E" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">鲨客更让人省心的一点是，拖布是</span><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">双面设计</strong></span><span style="color: black;">的，一面脏了<span style="color: black;">能够</span>换一面继续拖，<span style="color: black;">不消</span>来回跑去洗拖布。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">它家拖布用的</span><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">双色材质</strong></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">亦</span>很值得说一说，白色部分是超细纤维，细密柔软，</span><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">能很好地锁水</strong></span><span style="color: black;">；灰色部分为耐热PP，</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">抓污力强，但又不会损害地板</span></strong><span style="color: black;">。</span></p><img src="data:image/svg+xml,%3C%3Fxml version=1.0 encoding=UTF-8%3F%3E%3Csvg width=1px height=1px viewBox=0 0 1 1 version=1.1 xmlns=http://www.w3.org/2000/svg xmlns:xlink=http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink%3E%3Ctitle%3E%3C/title%3E%3Cg stroke=none stroke-width=1 fill=none fill-rule=evenodd fill-opacity=0%3E%3Cg transform=translate(-249.000000, -126.000000) fill=%23FFFFFF%3E%3Crect x=249 y=126 width=1 height=1%3E%3C/rect%3E%3C/g%3E%3C/g%3E%3C/svg%3E" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">虽然叫“蒸汽拖把”，但鲨客T8不仅能拿来拖地，配备了<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>种刷头，<span style="color: black;">能够</span>拆卸下来变成手持模式。</span></p><img src="data:image/svg+xml,%3C%3Fxml version=1.0 encoding=UTF-8%3F%3E%3Csvg width=1px height=1px viewBox=0 0 1 1 version=1.1 xmlns=http://www.w3.org/2000/svg xmlns:xlink=http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink%3E%3Ctitle%3E%3C/title%3E%3Cg stroke=none stroke-width=1 fill=none fill-rule=evenodd fill-opacity=0%3E%3Cg transform=translate(-249.000000, -126.000000) fill=%23FFFFFF%3E%3Crect x=249 y=126 width=1 height=1%3E%3C/rect%3E%3C/g%3E%3C/g%3E%3C/svg%3E" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">窗户灰尘、厨房油污、角落顽固污渍、小孩的玩具娃娃、自己穿的衣服、宠物毛发，都<span style="color: black;">能够</span>用它清洁消毒，</span></strong><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">全屋除菌除螨</span></strong></span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">，更省心和安心。</span></strong></p><img src="data:image/svg+xml,%3C%3Fxml version=1.0 encoding=UTF-8%3F%3E%3Csvg width=1px height=1px viewBox=0 0 1 1 version=1.1 xmlns=http://www.w3.org/2000/svg xmlns:xlink=http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink%3E%3Ctitle%3E%3C/title%3E%3Cg stroke=none stroke-width=1 fill=none fill-rule=evenodd fill-opacity=0%3E%3Cg transform=translate(-249.000000, -126.000000) fill=%23FFFFFF%3E%3Crect x=249 y=126 width=1 height=1%3E%3C/rect%3E%3C/g%3E%3C/g%3E%3C/svg%3E" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">鲨客最深得小仙女心的，是它不会脏手！</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">特有 To</span></strong><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">uch-Free 技术</strong></span><span style="color: black;">，只需简单一按、<span style="color: black;">不消</span>沾手， 就能<span style="color: black;">快速</span>完成拖布的安装拆卸，让搞定家务更<span style="color: black;">容易</span>。</span></p><img src="data:image/svg+xml,%3C%3Fxml version=1.0 encoding=UTF-8%3F%3E%3Csvg width=1px height=1px viewBox=0 0 1 1 version=1.1 xmlns=http://www.w3.org/2000/svg xmlns:xlink=http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink%3E%3Ctitle%3E%3C/title%3E%3Cg stroke=none stroke-width=1 fill=none fill-rule=evenodd fill-opacity=0%3E%3Cg transform=translate(-249.000000, -126.000000) fill=%23FFFFFF%3E%3Crect x=249 y=126 width=1 height=1%3E%3C/rect%3E%3C/g%3E%3C/g%3E%3C/svg%3E" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"><span style="color: black;">&lt; 轻轻按一下，就能拆卸 &gt;</span><img src="data:image/svg+xml,%3C%3Fxml version=1.0 encoding=UTF-8%3F%3E%3Csvg width=1px height=1px viewBox=0 0 1 1 version=1.1 xmlns=http://www.w3.org/2000/svg xmlns:xlink=http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink%3E%3Ctitle%3E%3C/title%3E%3Cg stroke=none stroke-width=1 fill=none fill-rule=evenodd fill-opacity=0%3E%3Cg transform=translate(-249.000000, -126.000000) fill=%23FFFFFF%3E%3Crect x=249 y=126 width=1 height=1%3E%3C/rect%3E%3C/g%3E%3C/g%3E%3C/svg%3E" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"><span style="color: black;">&lt; 安装<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">不消</span>沾手 &gt;</span>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">这次，小仙女还给<span style="color: black;">大众</span>争取到了优惠价！</span></p><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">&nbsp; 鲨客蒸汽拖把T8&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></strong></span>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">原价</span></strong><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">1999元</span></strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">此刻</span>购买</span></strong><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">立减</span></strong></span><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">700</span></strong></span><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">元</span></strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">到手价仅需</span></strong><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">1299元</strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">下单</span></strong><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">再送清洁布一盒+三角拖把头</span></strong></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">活动时间：3月5日-3月8日24点</span></strong></p>
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