《做家务的男人》：被催婚的魏大勋告诉咱们，明白爱情真相是关键
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">2019年9月6日，综艺节目《做家务的男人》播出新的一期，这一期魏大勋家里迎来一位小客人—魏大勋舅舅家的<span style="color: black;">mm</span>。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">大勋舅妈来京办事带<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>不方便，就把<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>放在魏大勋家一天。魏大勋和父母在照顾和自己年纪相差二十几岁的<span style="color: black;">mm</span>时，体验到带<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>辛苦的<span style="color: black;">同期</span>，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>给魏爸魏玛带来催婚的新机会。</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">魏爸魏玛带着小侄女，心里想的<span style="color: black;">倘若</span>这是自己的亲孙女，那该多好啊！于是，魏爸魏妈利用<span style="color: black;">各样</span><span style="color: black;">机会</span>，见缝插针，明着催婚和暗地催婚齐上阵，给大勋带来不小压力。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">然则</span>，大勋在和父母的<span style="color: black;">交流</span>中，<span style="color: black;">显示</span>自己的立场和态度，<span style="color: black;">由于</span>他明白爱情的真相是什么。</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>到了适婚年龄，父母催婚是正常的，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是<span style="color: black;">能够</span>理解的。但<span style="color: black;">做为</span>父母<span style="color: black;">亦</span>要理解<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，不是<span style="color: black;">她们</span>自己不急着谈<span style="color: black;">爱情</span>，而是暂时<span style="color: black;">无</span>遇到合适的，爱情这件事不是急和催就能<span style="color: black;">持有</span>的。</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">就像大勋说的，自己<span style="color: black;">亦</span>着急，<span style="color: black;">倘若</span>父母着急他更着急，而<span style="color: black;">这般</span>的急会给他带来压力。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">爱情不是<span style="color: black;">由于</span>急就能顺利找到的，催婚的父母总是觉得<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>不积极，认为<span style="color: black;">她们</span>不想找对象，不想结婚，<span style="color: black;">这般</span>的误解会给<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>带来抵触心理。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">由于</span><span style="color: black;">针对</span>想<span style="color: black;">持有</span>爱情的人<span style="color: black;">来讲</span>，在适婚年纪还<span style="color: black;">无</span>合适人选，会承受很大压力，但<span style="color: black;">倘若</span>父母<span style="color: black;">不睬</span>解，时刻开启催婚模式，会让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>崩溃的。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">大勋深知爱情不是急的事，才会抵挡住父母的<span style="color: black;">各样</span>催婚。</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">爱情，是双向<span style="color: black;">选取</span>的过程，不是一方情愿就能得到的。</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">既然是双向<span style="color: black;">选取</span>，就需要时间让彼此去<span style="color: black;">认识</span>，<span style="color: black;">这般</span>才减少“不合适”，即选错的</strong><strong style="color: blue;">机率</strong><strong style="color: blue;">，这<span style="color: black;">亦</span>说明爱情是需要<span style="color: black;">小心</span><span style="color: black;">选取</span></strong><strong style="color: blue;">的。</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">大勋在节目中坦言，<span style="color: black;">由于</span>着急找的不合适，以后<span style="color: black;">亦</span>会带来问题。过好过<span style="color: black;">欠好</span>日子，是<span style="color: black;">一生</span>的事情。大勋爸爸<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">暗示</span>，<span style="color: black;">倘若</span>着急没选好，以后会更痛苦。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">爱情，<span style="color: black;">为何</span>要“谈”，其实<span style="color: black;">便是</span>在<span style="color: black;">小心</span><span style="color: black;">选取</span>，<span style="color: black;">由于</span>在“谈”的过程中，自己会更加清楚对方是不是适合自己的人，是不是自己真正爱的人，从这个<span style="color: black;">方向</span><span style="color: black;">来讲</span>，闪婚带来闪离，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是有<span style="color: black;">必定</span>道理的。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">大勋明白爱情需要<span style="color: black;">小心</span><span style="color: black;">选取</span>，<span style="color: black;">结婚</span>是一件大事，<span style="color: black;">因此</span>他不会随便找个人来<span style="color: black;">处理</span>父母的催婚问题。</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">青年</span>人生<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>这件事，<span style="color: black;">必定</span><span style="color: black;">想要</span>清楚，即生<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">不可</span><span style="color: black;">由于</span>父母想带孙子就<span style="color: black;">选取</span>生<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，<span style="color: black;">由于</span>生<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>是自己的决定，父母帮忙带那不是责任和义务。</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">大勋父母在带<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>这件事上，<span style="color: black;">暗示</span><span style="color: black;">能够</span>大包大揽，但这<span style="color: black;">不可</span><span style="color: black;">做为</span>大勋生<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的关键。我相信大勋父母<span style="color: black;">能够</span>做到，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>能做得很好，但<span style="color: black;">这般</span>的做法<span style="color: black;">不可</span>用在其他父母身上。</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">大勋在生<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>这件事上，<span style="color: black;">显示</span>自己的立场，我非常赞同。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">立场一，<span style="color: black;">不可</span><span style="color: black;">由于</span>父母想带<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，自己就去弄一个<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>。</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">非常多</span>愚孝的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>觉得，父母说什么都是对的，父母的<span style="color: black;">需求</span><span style="color: black;">必定</span>要满足，否则<span style="color: black;">便是</span>不孝的，<span style="color: black;">这般</span>的做法不仅<span style="color: black;">无</span>立场，还对<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>是<span style="color: black;">有害</span>的。<span style="color: black;">由于</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>是自己的，不是父母的。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">立场二，生<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>是一步步来的，要符合谈<span style="color: black;">爱情</span>、结婚，以及有意愿生<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>这个<span style="color: black;">规律</span>。</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">生<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>是一件严肃的事情，<span style="color: black;">更加是</span>一份责任，需要当事人仔细<span style="color: black;">思虑</span>，<span style="color: black;">才可</span>决定的。<span style="color: black;">此刻</span>有些<span style="color: black;">青年</span>人，在生<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>这件事上欠<span style="color: black;">思虑</span>，<span style="color: black;">无</span>太多规划，养<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">无</span>仔细想过，最后当<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>到来时会不知所措。其实，这<span style="color: black;">便是</span><span style="color: black;">无</span>认真对待这件事<span style="color: black;">引起</span>的。</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">爱情这件事，归根到底还是自己的事，父母的催婚和催生，只能是提醒，或<span style="color: black;">暗示</span>着急<span style="color: black;">罢了</span>。<span style="color: black;">由于</span>爱情这件事是需要自己去经历的。</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">父母在<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的<span style="color: black;">结婚</span>大事上，<span style="color: black;">更加多</span>的应是<span style="color: black;">意见</span>和尊重，不要变成一种绑架。</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">在这点上，大勋的父母做得不错，虽然表现略显着急。</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">节目中，主持人朱丹和魏爸魏妈说“畅想”一下<span style="color: black;">将来</span>儿媳妇时，<span style="color: black;">她们</span><span style="color: black;">暗示</span>只要是大勋<span style="color: black;">爱好</span><span style="color: black;">她们</span>都接受。这点很难得，<span style="color: black;">由于</span>有些父母<span style="color: black;">尤其</span><span style="color: black;">爱好</span>“干涉”子女的择偶问题，<span style="color: black;">她们</span>以过来人的身份<span style="color: black;">需求</span>对方<span style="color: black;">怎样</span><span style="color: black;">怎样</span>，<span style="color: black;">她们</span>却忘记了是自己<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>找对象，不是<span style="color: black;">她们</span>在找对象，这<span style="color: black;">便是</span><span style="color: black;">无</span>看到问题的核心，只会越帮越忙。</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">节目中，魏大勋和父母谈到生<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的问题时，魏妈<span style="color: black;">暗示</span><span style="color: black;">她们</span>会尊重他的<span style="color: black;">选取</span>，<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">便是</span>说，<span style="color: black;">她们</span>急归急，但不会强迫大勋去做自己<span style="color: black;">无</span>决定的事情。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">有些父母在催婚和催生不见效果时，会给子女实施道德绑架，<span style="color: black;">例如</span>不结婚<span style="color: black;">便是</span>不孝，不生<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>是不孝，<span style="color: black;">这般</span>的绑架<span style="color: black;">便是</span><span style="color: black;">无</span>尊重<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的<span style="color: black;">选取</span>。</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">节目中，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>看到魏爸魏妈在大勋爱情这件事情上，非常着急，<span style="color: black;">然则</span><span style="color: black;">她们</span>的催婚还是<span style="color: black;">创立</span>在理解大勋的<span style="color: black;">基本</span>上，<span style="color: black;">无</span>给大勋太多压力。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">最后，<span style="color: black;">她们</span>一家人达成一致意见，即顺气自然。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">顺其自然，并不是<span style="color: black;">无</span><span style="color: black;">做为</span>的干等，而是有所行动后的顺其自然，<span style="color: black;">这般</span>才是积极的态度，<span style="color: black;">由于</span>爱情这件事情上，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>有不确定性。<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>在因上<span style="color: black;">奋斗</span>，至于结果<span style="color: black;">怎样</span>，顺其自然。</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">其实，应对父母的催婚，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">必定</span>要<span style="color: black;">晓得</span>自己想要的是什么，即明白爱情的真相，<span style="color: black;">这般</span>才不会失去爱情的<span style="color: black;">选取</span>权。自己的爱情自己做主。</strong></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">最后，祝福大勋<span style="color: black;">早点</span>找到意中人。</p>
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