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高质量陪同孩儿:范蓉老师辽宁电台直播录音(下)


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    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">近期</span>,范蓉老师受辽宁广播电视台辽宁之声(FM102.9)《宝贝,爱你》节目邀请,就高质量<span style="color: black;">陪同</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的<span style="color: black;">专题</span>,与听众家长们聊了高质量<span style="color: black;">陪同</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的<span style="color: black;">道理</span>;<span style="color: black;">为何</span>家长<span style="color: black;">不可</span>高质量<span style="color: black;">陪同</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>;什么是高质量<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>;<span style="color: black;">怎样</span>做到高质量<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>等家长感兴趣的<span style="color: black;">专题</span>。<span style="color: black;">此刻</span>将直播内容整体分享给<span style="color: black;">大众</span>,<span style="color: black;">期盼</span>家长从中受到启发,陪<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">一块</span>成长。</p>

    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">下面是范蓉老师为<span style="color: black;">大众</span>分段整理的节目内容,分为上、中、下三篇推出,<span style="color: black;">期盼</span><span style="color: black;">大众</span><span style="color: black;">爱好</span>。<span style="color: black;">倘若</span>家长<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>们有什么疑问,欢迎给范蓉老师留言。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">高质量<span style="color: black;">陪同</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>:范蓉老师辽宁电台直播录音(上)</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">高质量<span style="color: black;">陪同</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>:范蓉老师辽宁电台直播录音(中)</span></p><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/xYVQT3PZUHdrCSdsbUhgE4ydD2STAfA7Vp7gvX4LjxnDDlcR6gv3nrziaR0WxuKwWNiaolWQNQM07kIeOn16vqpw/640?wx_fmt=png&amp;tp=webp&amp;wxfrom=5&amp;wx_lazy=1&amp;wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/xYVQT3PZUHdrCSdsbUhgE4ydD2STAfA7p4XBmPRcqiaAD5cxJRxz1So2LtQhBiblUjoibrlvcE3YWpbwYxgPtozwA/640?wx_fmt=png&amp;tp=webp&amp;wxfrom=5&amp;wx_lazy=1&amp;wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">你的<span style="color: black;">陪同</span><span style="color: black;">必要</span>走心</p><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/xYVQT3PZUHdrCSdsbUhgE4ydD2STAfA7UPybTXVbyOTic6624icHQpVnreB670O0xsVhyKzBDpEDnPqJRgVh7GSQ/640?wx_fmt=png&amp;tp=webp&amp;wxfrom=5&amp;wx_lazy=1&amp;wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">范蓉老师:人都说,高质量的<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>是父亲母亲给<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>童年最最好的礼物。用心的<span style="color: black;">陪同</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>,<span style="color: black;">才可</span>得到真正的爱的滋养。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">我想告诉<span style="color: black;">青年</span>的爸爸妈妈们,实现高质量的<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>,其实并不是很难的一件事情,是<span style="color: black;">尤其</span>简单的。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">在这跟<span style="color: black;">大众</span>分享几点我的<span style="color: black;">意见</span>:你的<span style="color: black;">陪同</span><span style="color: black;">必要</span>走心,这是<span style="color: black;">第1</span>点。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">其实<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>真的不是很难,只要<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>愿意花上<span style="color: black;">那样</span>一点点的时间,关键是在态度上去改变,是利他的<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>,而不是利己的;是走心的,而不是不走心的;是真正的<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>,而不是忽略的<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">例如</span>说在我的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>很小的时候,那时候家家还<span style="color: black;">无</span>汽车呢,都是骑着<span style="color: black;">自动</span>车带着她回姥姥家,去奶奶家,到公园等等。我记得<span style="color: black;">自动</span>车的后面<span style="color: black;">便是</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>坐的一个小筐,她坐在我的身后,一路上<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>都在聊天。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">聊什么呢?我会找<span style="color: black;">有些</span><span style="color: black;">陪同</span><span style="color: black;">其中</span><span style="color: black;">尤其</span>有趣儿的<span style="color: black;">专题</span>,<span style="color: black;">例如</span>我记得很清楚的是“今天<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>说一个图形好<span style="color: black;">欠好</span>,什么都行。”我的女儿就<span style="color: black;">起始</span><span style="color: black;">特别有</span>兴致的参与进来。我说“<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>今天说圆的,还是说方的?”</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">“说圆的!”</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">“你先说,还是我先说?”</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">“我先说!”</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">“好,你说一个,我说一个,<span style="color: black;">倘若</span>说不出来就算输了!”</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">于是她<span style="color: black;">起始</span>说“车轮是圆的。”</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">“<span style="color: black;">自动</span>车车轮是圆的。”</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">“太阳是圆的。”</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">“月亮有的时候<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是圆的。”</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">这一路上<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>欢歌笑语的说着就到了姥姥家,我想这一路上的<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>时间并不长,<span style="color: black;">由于</span>那个时候我天天在上节目,要么采访,要么主持节目,真的时间很少,<span style="color: black;">因此</span><span style="color: black;">陪同</span>她的时间<span style="color: black;">尤其</span>有限。<span style="color: black;">然则</span>我会利用<span style="color: black;">这般</span>短暂的时间,做到有效,温暖,真心<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">这般</span>有趣的互动事情还有<span style="color: black;">非常多</span><span style="color: black;">非常多</span>,我的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>在这个过程<span style="color: black;">其中</span>,我想我和他之间彼此都感受了一种幸福,<span style="color: black;">最少</span>有三种幸福。<span style="color: black;">第1</span>,交流的幸福。第二,<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>的幸福。第三,互动感受母子之间亲子关系的幸福。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">因此</span>爸爸妈妈你拿出<span style="color: black;">那样</span>一点点的走心的时间,认真的<span style="color: black;">陪同</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>说说话,聊聊天,做做游戏,散散步,<span style="color: black;">或</span>整理整理自己的小东西,<span style="color: black;">或</span>做一个小游戏,都是好的<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>,是让你走心的<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">主持人:我忽然想起来,我有个好<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>,他是牙医,有一天我跟他<span style="color: black;">一块</span>陪<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>,<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>两家是邻居。他就<span style="color: black;">始终</span>在看手机。我说“你在干嘛?”他说“有<span style="color: black;">病人</span>,我得给回信儿。”我说“你看你一天工作这么忙,好<span style="color: black;">不易</span>陪<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>,你就陪<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>玩会儿呗。”他说“哎呀,陪啥呀?我还能教他拔牙呀。”</p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">范蓉老师:虽然这是一句教玩笑话,但能看出这个家长的态度,他可能认为工作比<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>更重要的。我想告诉<span style="color: black;">大众</span>的是,<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的成长就<span style="color: black;">那样</span>一个小的<span style="color: black;">周期</span>是在你身边度过的,到了18岁,<span style="color: black;">乃至</span><span style="color: black;">不消</span>到18岁,更早的时间他可能就不在给你<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>的时间了。这个机会还是好好的把握,好好的<span style="color: black;">爱惜</span>。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">例如</span>说<span style="color: black;">此刻</span>我想要好好陪在<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的身边,<span style="color: black;">已然</span>不现实和不可能了。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">主持人:<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">成长</span>了。</p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">范蓉老师:是的。我奉劝爸爸妈妈们,放掉自己的<span style="color: black;">懊恼</span>,放掉自己的焦虑,把自己的<span style="color: black;">心理</span><span style="color: black;">调节</span>得平静<span style="color: black;">有些</span>,温和<span style="color: black;">有些</span>,带着<span style="color: black;">这般</span>一颗心去<span style="color: black;">陪同</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>,哪怕<span style="color: black;">每日</span>只陪上15分钟,只要是高质量的,你的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>会在这短暂的,真心的,走心的<span style="color: black;">陪同</span><span style="color: black;">其中</span>,感受到那份滋养,那份爱,感受到一种安全感。<span style="color: black;">由于</span>你的<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>是假的,我说比不<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>都可怕!</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">主持人:还不如不<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>。</p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">范蓉老师:要<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>就真心<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>,<span style="color: black;">不消</span>时间过长,只要真心,哪怕15分钟。</span></p><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/xYVQT3PZUHdrCSdsbUhgE4ydD2STAfA7p4XBmPRcqiaAD5cxJRxz1So2LtQhBiblUjoibrlvcE3YWpbwYxgPtozwA/640?wx_fmt=png&amp;tp=webp&amp;wxfrom=5&amp;wx_lazy=1&amp;wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;<span style="color: black;">怎样</span>高质量<span style="color: black;">陪同</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span></p><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/xYVQT3PZUHdrCSdsbUhgE4ydD2STAfA7UPybTXVbyOTic6624icHQpVnreB670O0xsVhyKzBDpEDnPqJRgVh7GSQ/640?wx_fmt=png&amp;tp=webp&amp;wxfrom=5&amp;wx_lazy=1&amp;wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">主持人:其实您在和您的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">陪同</span>的过程<span style="color: black;">其中</span>,我觉得<span style="color: black;">能够</span>创造有趣的<span style="color: black;">专题</span>是吧?说了一个圆的呀,方的呀,<span style="color: black;">或</span>是跟<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>聊天儿啊,讲一讲今天<span style="color: black;">出现</span>的事情啊,你的看法呀,我的想法呀,我觉得这种<span style="color: black;">专题</span>之间的互动,<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>愿意表达。<span style="color: black;">经过</span>表达,妈妈<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">能够</span>赞美<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>呀“你说的真好呀,你比妈妈还厉害呀。”可能这种自<span style="color: black;">自信心</span>慢慢就<span style="color: black;">提高</span>起来了。</p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">因此</span>我想<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>人不<span style="color: black;">晓得</span>该<span style="color: black;">怎样</span>跟<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>沟通,不<span style="color: black;">晓得</span>说什么。我<span style="color: black;">亦</span>跟<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>家长交流,<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>家长说我刚还跟我聊什么,<span style="color: black;">无</span>什么可聊的。那我给<span style="color: black;">她们</span>出个招,我说那你俩就读诗呗,小<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>不都背唐诗吗?那你俩比着背唐诗,看谁背的多,<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是一种交流,<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是一种学习,那你有的时候你<span style="color: black;">欠好</span>好背,你都没<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>会背的多。<span style="color: black;">因此</span>我想,家长还在和<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>交流的过程<span style="color: black;">其中</span>,其实<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是<span style="color: black;">认识</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的状态,<span style="color: black;">认识</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的<span style="color: black;">心理</span>,<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是一种成长,<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是对<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的一种<span style="color: black;">熟练</span>和<span style="color: black;">认识</span>。</p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">范蓉老师:对啊。<span style="color: black;">例如</span>说过去我和我的女儿在交流的时候,<span style="color: black;">由于</span><span style="color: black;">每日</span>下班很晚,跟她交流的时间差不多<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">便是</span>在吃晚饭的时候。在交流的时候<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>彼此分享,<span style="color: black;">例如</span>“今天你那有什么有趣儿的事儿,你愿意和妈妈说一说吗?”当她说完我就觉得很好奇,<span style="color: black;">乃至</span>有的<span style="color: black;">地区</span>跟她去对话,该静静的听就静静的听。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">听完了之后再跟她对话,我说“你在这个过程<span style="color: black;">其中</span>有什么样的体会呀?有什么开心的感觉呀?”她说完了我会说“好有意思啊,好棒。”你再适时的给她<span style="color: black;">有些</span>肯定。“妈妈,你有什么好玩的事儿?”我就把今天我上了什么节目啊?采访的谁呀?今天<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>办公室又有什么有趣的事<span style="color: black;">出现</span>了。“她<span style="color: black;">亦</span>觉得<span style="color: black;">尤其</span>有意思,又打开了一个特殊的世界。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">因此</span>彼此的交流和分享<span style="color: black;">便是</span>最好的<span style="color: black;">专题</span>,<strong style="color: blue;">家庭<span style="color: black;">其中</span>应该利用所有有价值的时间,去做高质量的沟通</strong>,爸爸妈妈<span style="color: black;">能够</span>听听<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>说<span style="color: black;">有些</span>好玩的事儿,<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">能够</span>跟<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>分享有趣的事。这种亲子互动<span style="color: black;">并不</span><span style="color: black;">必须</span>到别的<span style="color: black;">地区</span>去取材,<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">不消</span>专门拿出时间,只是在家庭的晚餐<span style="color: black;">其中</span>,做饭的时间,或做家务的时间,就能够很好的完成这种高质量的<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>和高质量的互动,交流。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">主持人:我觉得这种交流,你们之间的角色变得不是<span style="color: black;">那样</span>清晰,不是说我<span style="color: black;">便是</span>妈妈,我<span style="color: black;">便是</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>,而变成好<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>,<span style="color: black;">便是</span><span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>之间,你的世界里有什么好玩的事儿?我的世界里有什么好玩的事儿?你的世界是我想探求的,我的世界你是想<span style="color: black;">认识</span>的,这种互动我觉得<span style="color: black;">尤其</span>开心。</p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">范蓉老师:其实这<span style="color: black;">触及</span>到家长和<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>之间,<span style="color: black;">怎样</span>来定位自己的角色。你是爸爸妈妈不假,<span style="color: black;">然则</span>在家庭里,在<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的身边,你要把自己<span style="color: black;">所说</span>的高高的样子降下来,<strong style="color: blue;">你和他是平等的</strong>。当你内心<span style="color: black;">尤其</span>尊重这个个体,把他<span style="color: black;">做为</span>独立的生命个体去接纳、去尊重的时候,你就<span style="color: black;">无</span><span style="color: black;">那样</span>高高在上,<span style="color: black;">或</span><span style="color: black;">无</span><span style="color: black;">那样</span>多的呵斥、指责了。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">咱们</span>的家长要把心放下来,你和<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>是平等的,你和<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>是<span style="color: black;">一样</span><span style="color: black;">能够</span>探讨问题的。<span style="color: black;">因此</span>家长在互动的时候,<span style="color: black;">首要</span>把自己的角色定好:我是他的一个<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>者,他是我的一个好伙伴,<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>此时在做游戏。用<span style="color: black;">这般</span>的<span style="color: black;">心理</span>来<span style="color: black;">一起</span>吃饭,<span style="color: black;">一起</span>聊天,<span style="color: black;">一起</span>讲故事,散步,<span style="color: black;">乃至</span>你<span style="color: black;">能够</span>做角色扮演。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">例如</span>你这会儿扮演大灰狼,她扮演一个小<span style="color: black;">女子</span>;<span style="color: black;">或</span>这个时候他扮演王子,你扮演一个公主,其实角色<span style="color: black;">无</span><span style="color: black;">那样</span>严苛。你只要<strong style="color: blue;">进入他的游戏,进入他的心灵,进入他的世界,进入他的频道里</strong>,你们<span style="color: black;">便是</span>最好的玩伴,这种<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>就叫高质量的<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/xYVQT3PZUHfMAqSbeZ29ZLiaYJdYW2bTRhOOfvyPiaiaia74sQibxQ8fgJnz2GvqOgT8NZue82iaqebNCSYLBLicpHI8w/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&amp;tp=webp&amp;wxfrom=5&amp;wx_lazy=1&amp;wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">主持人:<span style="color: black;">因此</span>真正的<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>其实是俯下身来,是蹲下来,无论是你的身体的姿态,还是你的内心的样子,俯下身来,蹲下来,和你的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">作为</span>好<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>,去体会他的状态。我<span style="color: black;">此刻</span>想想,我有了两个<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>,我会想起我小的时候四五岁,五六岁的时候,我是56天就被我妈妈送进了幼儿园,一路长托下来,等我<span style="color: black;">便是</span>回家的时候,我都觉得家里<span style="color: black;">尤其</span>陌生,<span style="color: black;">由于</span>一个礼拜接一次,<span style="color: black;">而后</span>送回去。那时候连周六都<span style="color: black;">无</span>,一个礼拜就在家呆一天,这一天我妈妈还要带我到公共大澡堂洗澡嗯还要做<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>事情。有一天我会回来,说从<span style="color: black;">此刻</span><span style="color: black;">起始</span>你上小学了,回到家里<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>要天天在家住的,我都很不习惯。<span style="color: black;">因此</span>我想这种<span style="color: black;">针对</span>外界的一种<span style="color: black;">熟练</span>,对家庭的不<span style="color: black;">熟练</span>,可能我真的<span style="color: black;">必须</span>适应了很<span style="color: black;">长期</span>。</p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">范蓉老师:对这个<span style="color: black;">便是</span>家长缺少<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>,那个时候的客观上不<span style="color: black;">准许</span>你的爸爸妈妈给你<span style="color: black;">更加多</span>的时间去<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>,这个在你的生命<span style="color: black;">其中</span>,你要慢慢找回和<span style="color: black;">她们</span>在<span style="color: black;">一块</span>的时光和感觉。</span></p><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/xYVQT3PZUHdrCSdsbUhgE4ydD2STAfA7p4XBmPRcqiaAD5cxJRxz1So2LtQhBiblUjoibrlvcE3YWpbwYxgPtozwA/640?wx_fmt=png&amp;tp=webp&amp;wxfrom=5&amp;wx_lazy=1&amp;wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;给家长的五个<span style="color: black;">意见</span></p><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/xYVQT3PZUHdrCSdsbUhgE4ydD2STAfA7UPybTXVbyOTic6624icHQpVnreB670O0xsVhyKzBDpEDnPqJRgVh7GSQ/640?wx_fmt=png&amp;tp=webp&amp;wxfrom=5&amp;wx_lazy=1&amp;wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">一,你<span style="color: black;">每日</span><span style="color: black;">最少</span>有一次完全是<span style="color: black;">无</span>手机干扰的<span style="color: black;">状况</span>下去陪陪你的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>。</span></strong></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">二,<span style="color: black;">最少</span>有一次和<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>疯狂的傻笑<span style="color: black;">或</span>是玩闹。</span></strong></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">三,<span style="color: black;">最少</span>有一次身体的接触,抱抱啊<span style="color: black;">或</span>是怎么样。</span></strong></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">四,<span style="color: black;">最少</span>有一次放下教育他的念头,真正和他<span style="color: black;">一块</span>玩耍。</span></strong></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">五,真正看着你的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的眼睛说“我爱你!”</span></strong></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">主持人:我做到了,我在对照我自己啊,我觉得我做到了这些。</p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">范蓉老师:那就恭喜你了。<span style="color: black;">更加多</span>的收音机前的父亲母亲们,你们做到了吗?请对照一下。</span></p><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/xYVQT3PZUHdrCSdsbUhgE4ydD2STAfA7p4XBmPRcqiaAD5cxJRxz1So2LtQhBiblUjoibrlvcE3YWpbwYxgPtozwA/640?wx_fmt=png&amp;tp=webp&amp;wxfrom=5&amp;wx_lazy=1&amp;wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">父亲母亲<span style="color: black;">陪同</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的定义<span style="color: black;">区别</span></p><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/xYVQT3PZUHdrCSdsbUhgE4ydD2STAfA7UPybTXVbyOTic6624icHQpVnreB670O0xsVhyKzBDpEDnPqJRgVh7GSQ/640?wx_fmt=png&amp;tp=webp&amp;wxfrom=5&amp;wx_lazy=1&amp;wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">告诉<span style="color: black;">大众</span>,父亲和母亲在<span style="color: black;">陪同</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">其中</span>,定义还不完全<span style="color: black;">同样</span>。<span style="color: black;">针对</span>父亲<span style="color: black;">来讲</span>,真正的不分心的花时间<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>,才是高质量的<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>。<span style="color: black;">针对</span>母亲<span style="color: black;">来讲</span>,愉快的,不焦虑的,用心<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>,才是高质量的<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">让<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>多<span style="color: black;">有些</span>高质量的<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>,<span style="color: black;">最后</span>让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>记住的不是你给买了多少玩具,买了花衣服,而是记住你真心<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>他的幸福的时光!</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">主持人:好,今天非常感谢范蓉老师在直播间和<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>分享“<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>的重要性”,<span style="color: black;">亦</span>教会<span style="color: black;">大众</span><span style="color: black;">怎样</span><span style="color: black;">陪同</span>。别忘了和你的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">每日</span>疯狂的大笑啊,好好逗逗他!<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>的节目到<span style="color: black;">这儿</span>结束了。感谢范蓉老师,谢谢<span style="color: black;">大众</span>!</p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">范蓉老师:好,再见!</span></p>
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