男人的爱要保持多很久，才可让女性满意？
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">男人在追求<span style="color: black;">女性</span>的过程中，要懂得拿捏火候。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">区别</span>的<span style="color: black;">女性</span>，就像<span style="color: black;">区别</span>的菜<span style="color: black;">同样</span>，烹饪起来<span style="color: black;">必须</span>的时间是不<span style="color: black;">同样</span>的。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">绿色蔬菜爆炒几分钟就能吃了，炒久就老了；</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">但大骨头总要温火慢炖，汤里<span style="color: black;">才可</span>有肉香味。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">因此</span>，男人的爱到底要<span style="color: black;">保持</span>多<span style="color: black;">长期</span>，才<span style="color: black;">能够</span>让<span style="color: black;">女性</span>满意呢？</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">其实，要分为以下这三种<span style="color: black;">状况</span>。</span></span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">一，<span style="color: black;">爱情</span>脑的女生，会<span style="color: black;">火速</span>沦陷</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">近期</span>重温《<span style="color: black;">欢快</span>颂》这部都市爱情剧，被22楼五个<span style="color: black;">女子</span>之间的友谊所感动，但<span style="color: black;">亦</span>看到了5个<span style="color: black;">女性</span>在面对爱情时的反应，差别竟如此之大。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">其中的邱莹莹最直爽<span style="color: black;">亦</span>最单纯，<span style="color: black;">第1</span>次和白主管<span style="color: black;">这般</span>的男人在<span style="color: black;">一块</span>，竟然认识不到三个月，就答应同居。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">白主管不专一，对感情<span style="color: black;">亦</span>不负责任，但依然能在<span style="color: black;">短期</span>内，快速拿下“傻白甜”。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">那种不会识别人心，还视爱情为生活中心，<span style="color: black;">乃至</span>性格有点自卑的<span style="color: black;">女性</span>，<span style="color: black;">尤其</span>容易栽进自己编织的美梦里。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">男人<span style="color: black;">不消</span><span style="color: black;">长期</span>的付出和讨好，只要陪聊几天，约会几次，<span style="color: black;">长时间</span>缺爱的女生，就能够对男人情不知所起，一往而深。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">最后<span style="color: black;">发掘</span>男人的真面目如此不堪，<span style="color: black;">女性</span>还<span style="color: black;">不可</span>轻易放下。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><img src="//q4.itc.cn/q_70/images03/20240529/2a4d1b61332e45e19237e7a94dc9994c.jpeg" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">二，刚分手的<span style="color: black;">女性</span>，视新欢为替代品</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">心理学教授罗兰·米勒在《亲密关系》里写道：</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">即使一段重要的亲密关系终结，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">常常</span>能找到替代伴侣（尽管新人和旧人有很大的差别），<span style="color: black;">况且</span>能满足<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>的归属<span style="color: black;">必须</span>。</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">这句话的意思<span style="color: black;">便是</span>：<span style="color: black;">无</span>人是<span style="color: black;">没</span>可替代的。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">刚才</span>经历分手的时候，会有戒断反应，吃不下饭睡不着觉，<span style="color: black;">心情</span><span style="color: black;">连续</span>低落很<span style="color: black;">平常</span>。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">但遇到了新的人，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>还是会重振旗鼓，又投入到新的亲密关系里，享受爱与被爱。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">因此</span>，男人在<span style="color: black;">女性</span>经历分手失恋的时候，多加<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>，她很容易移情到你身上，觉得你是个<span style="color: black;">靠谱</span>的伴侣。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">更有些男人，在<span style="color: black;">女性</span>买醉时趁虚而入，<span style="color: black;">出现</span>了关系，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>就自然而然在<span style="color: black;">一块</span>了。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">就像电影《前任3：再见前任》里的林佳，觉得自己跟不上相爱五年的男友孟云的进步，缺乏安全感，<span style="color: black;">因此</span>和老<span style="color: black;">朋友</span>来嘘寒问暖，两个人喝了酒，就肌肤相亲了。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">在情场上<span style="color: black;">刚才</span>失意的<span style="color: black;">女性</span>，对男人<span style="color: black;">来讲</span>，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是<span style="color: black;">能够</span><span style="color: black;">火速</span>搞定的。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><img src="//q3.itc.cn/q_70/images03/20240529/0b39340ff67a450d8522937959b195f3.jpeg" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">三，成熟有经验的<span style="color: black;">女性</span>，会花时间去考验男人</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">犯罪心理学教授李玫瑾说过：</span></span><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">爱情</span>爱的是一类人，结婚是一个人，<span style="color: black;">便是</span>你说我爱什么样的人，你<span style="color: black;">能够</span>谈出你的标准。</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">爱情</span>是一种感受，但这种感受不<span style="color: black;">必定</span>真实，<span style="color: black;">爱好</span>一个人的时候，不要着急，要慢慢地去品味。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">由于</span>时间，才是人心最好的试金石。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">曾经看过一个恋综节目，叫作《怦然心动20岁》。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">里面牵手成功的嘉宾，<span style="color: black;">火速</span>就在节目里拥抱接吻……但过不了多久，在现实生活中，<span style="color: black;">她们</span>却会官宣分手。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">而其中有一对嘉宾，在节目里相敬如宾，<span style="color: black;">况且</span>真的是“慢慢来”的节奏，充满了诚意，<span style="color: black;">迄今</span>还在社交平台上秀恩爱。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">因此</span>，成熟的男女<span style="color: black;">爱情</span>，不会太快，<span style="color: black;">常常</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>用一段时间去考验彼此。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">尤其聪明的<span style="color: black;">女性</span>，会担心男人是短择而非长择，<span style="color: black;">因此</span>更不会轻易答应<span style="color: black;">出现</span>关系。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">男人好奇自己的爱到底要<span style="color: black;">保持</span>多<span style="color: black;">长期</span>，<span style="color: black;">才可</span>让<span style="color: black;">女性</span>满意？</span></strong></span></p>
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