我,36岁,某钢企营销经理,年薪24万,为了活着,我回到部室上班
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><a style="color: black;">#记录我的2023#</a></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">我叫黄乾备,今年36岁,某钢铁企业<span style="color: black;">营销</span><span style="color: black;">机构</span>的业务经理,月薪2万元,<span style="color: black;">重点</span>负责山东地区的钢材<span style="color: black;">营销</span>工作。常年的驻外工作,忽略了<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>和爱人。每晚的酒局应酬,掏空了我强壮的身体。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">经过</span>和爱人的<span style="color: black;">谨慎</span>讨论后,我决定回<span style="color: black;">机构</span>的部室上班,挣每月6千元钱。今天我把我的故事分析给<span style="color: black;">大众</span>,<span style="color: black;">期盼</span><span style="color: black;">大众</span>对我的<span style="color: black;">选取</span>多提好的想法和看法。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">2012年,我大学毕业后,应聘到某钢厂从事设备<span style="color: black;">守护</span>工作。初到企业,面对全新的设备和环境,我感到<span style="color: black;">非常</span>的好奇,心里<span style="color: black;">亦</span>充满了斗志,暗暗下定决心要干出点成绩出来。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">2年时间过去了,尽管我工作的很<span style="color: black;">奋斗</span>,<span style="color: black;">亦</span>得到领导的多次<span style="color: black;">褒奖</span>,但我还是<span style="color: black;">无</span>得到升职的提名,每月拿着3千元的固定工资。<span style="color: black;">然则</span>,让我欣慰的是,我遇到了我人生的另一半,<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>携手步入了<span style="color: black;">结婚</span>的殿堂。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">组建了家庭以后,<span style="color: black;">各样</span>开销(水电费、饭费、<span style="color: black;">平常</span>消费、房贷等)<span style="color: black;">亦</span>就扑面而来。我和爱人每月加起来的工资<span style="color: black;">亦</span>就5000多元,基本上满足<span style="color: black;">平常</span>的<span style="color: black;">各样</span>花销。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">1年以后,<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>又迎来了爱情的结晶,我家的大公子降生了。<span style="color: black;">起始</span>的时候<span style="color: black;">整家</span>人都沉浸在喜悦之中,<span style="color: black;">然则</span>喜悦过后,压力<span style="color: black;">亦</span>就随之而来。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">平常</span>的开销之中又多了<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的奶粉费、尿不湿等,我和爱人的开销<span style="color: black;">显著</span>有点入<span style="color: black;">不足</span>出。<span style="color: black;">没</span>奈之下,我利用下班后的时间出去跑快递来挣点快钱。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">为了节省开支,我<span style="color: black;">晌午</span>只要2个馒头,半份素菜。我用剩余的工作餐费买点家里<span style="color: black;">平常</span>生活的必需品。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">有一次,我在食堂餐桌吃饭,<span style="color: black;">忽然</span>旁边过来一个人坐下了。我仔细一看,是<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">机构</span><span style="color: black;">营销</span><span style="color: black;">分部</span>的一个小领导。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">他见我啃着一个馒头就着咸菜,惊讶的说道:“小黄,你这啥<span style="color: black;">状况</span>?减肥了?”看着他盘子里面的大鱼大肉,我笑着说道:“领导,<span style="color: black;">近期</span>肚子不舒服,吃点素的。”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">他接着说:“别骗我,你这准备给儿子攒买房的钱了?”我说:“别闹了领导,<span style="color: black;">这般</span>得攒到<span style="color: black;">离休</span>都<span style="color: black;">不足</span>啊!”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">他又说:“是不是家里出啥事情了,连工作餐的钱都这么节省。”我说:“这<span style="color: black;">便是</span>生男<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>和<span style="color: black;">女子</span>子的差距啊,我<span style="color: black;">此刻</span>太<span style="color: black;">必须</span>钱了。”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">他说:“<span style="color: black;">这般</span>节省终究不是<span style="color: black;">很久</span>之策,<span style="color: black;">倘若</span>你<span style="color: black;">尤其</span>想挣钱,<span style="color: black;">思虑</span>来<span style="color: black;">营销</span><span style="color: black;">机构</span>工作吗?这边还挣的多点,<span style="color: black;">不外</span><span style="color: black;">必须</span><span style="color: black;">长时间</span>驻外。”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">我说道:“谢谢领导,我回去和爱人商量下,再给您答复。”<span style="color: black;">夜晚</span>回到家后,我和<span style="color: black;">妻子</span>说,准备换个<span style="color: black;">分部</span>工作,这个新部门挣的多点,<span style="color: black;">然则</span><span style="color: black;">必须</span><span style="color: black;">长时间</span>驻外,家里的事情就顾不上了。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">妻子</span>沉默了2分钟说道:“树挪死,人挪活,我支持你出去跑<span style="color: black;">营销</span>。家里的事你<span style="color: black;">安心</span>,实在我忙<span style="color: black;">不外</span>来,我把我妈叫来帮忙。”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">听了<span style="color: black;">妻子</span>的话,我内心五味杂陈,我激动地说:“<span style="color: black;">妻子</span>家里的事就麻烦你了,我会在外面<span style="color: black;">奋斗</span>工作,挣<span style="color: black;">更加多</span>的钱。”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">次日</span>,我将我的想法告诉了领导,他说:“你回去耐心等待,最晚<span style="color: black;">1星期</span>以后,你就<span style="color: black;">能够</span>出去工作了。”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">1星期</span>后,<span style="color: black;">机构</span>的人力部同事打<span style="color: black;">tel</span>让我去拿调令。我拿着调令来到了<span style="color: black;">营销</span><span style="color: black;">机构</span><span style="color: black;">报告</span>,<span style="color: black;">营销</span>的一把手安排我去山东<span style="color: black;">机构</span><span style="color: black;">报告</span>,并给了我一张名片,上面写着山东<span style="color: black;">机构</span><span style="color: black;">营销</span>总经理章开言。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">我拨通了章经理的<span style="color: black;">tel</span>,他对我说:“你会喝酒吗?”我回答道:“会喝酒,喝个半斤没问题。”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">他笑着说道:“怎们山东<span style="color: black;">营销</span><span style="color: black;">机构</span>就两条规矩:1、<span style="color: black;">制品</span>定价<span style="color: black;">不可</span>自己做主,要随时请示领导。2、喝酒<span style="color: black;">必要</span>8两以上。”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">我好奇的说:“咱们不是卖钢材啊,物美价优就<span style="color: black;">能够</span>了,为啥还要会喝酒8两以上啊!”章经理笑着说:“来了你就<span style="color: black;">晓得</span>了,记得带两瓶好酒过来。”我说:“没问题,章经理。”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">就<span style="color: black;">这般</span>,我坐上了开往山东的火车。刚一<span style="color: black;">落车</span>,山东<span style="color: black;">机构</span>的同事应经在站外等候了。他接上我后,向着<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>的办事处开去。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">路上我俩人聊了<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>,<span style="color: black;">重点</span>是薪资<span style="color: black;">薪水</span>和工作流程的事。后来,我又多问了一句,你开的帕萨特是你自己的吗?他说:“当然是我自己的,<span style="color: black;">机构</span>不可能给配车的。”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">当我俩人来到办事处的时候,章经理<span style="color: black;">已然</span>在小会议室等候我了。简短的欢迎仪式和工作安排后,章经理说道:“来到了齐鲁大地,我尽一下地主之仪给小黄接风。<span style="color: black;">夜晚</span>6点半,聚丰德饭店不见不散。”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">我说道:“谢谢章经理和<span style="color: black;">大众</span>,我受宠若惊啊!我带了2瓶好酒,<span style="color: black;">夜晚</span><span style="color: black;">大众</span><span style="color: black;">一块</span>尝尝。”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">章经理说:“两瓶酒太少了,<span style="color: black;">大众</span>还是<span style="color: black;">根据</span>老规矩。”众人纷纷笑着说:“好的。”我当时有点摸不着头脑。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">夜晚</span>,我按时来到了饭店。<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>山东<span style="color: black;">机构</span>一共5个人,除了章经理<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>每人手上拎着2瓶白酒。看到眼前的场面,我的心里直犯嘀咕,<span style="color: black;">第1</span>次见这么喝酒的。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">服务员起菜后,章经理简单的说了几句话,赶忙让<span style="color: black;">大众</span>每人拿一瓶酒放到自己的旁边。说道:“<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>山东<span style="color: black;">机构</span>喝酒不劝酒,规矩<span style="color: black;">便是</span>“一二三四五六七”,完事<span style="color: black;">必须</span>再联络感情的请自便。”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">说完,<span style="color: black;">大众</span><span style="color: black;">起始</span>起酒倒酒,每人倒满了一杯。章经理举杯说道:“我先干为敬。”说完,一口气干了一杯。<span style="color: black;">大众</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>纷纷端起酒杯干了,看着<span style="color: black;">大众</span>如此豪气的喝酒,我在那里愣了5秒钟。章经理说道:“小黄,你想啥呢?<span style="color: black;">大众</span>都喝完了。”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">我回答道:“您说的是这个 </span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">一二三四五六七</span></strong><span style="color: black;">啊。”说完,<span style="color: black;">大众</span>哈哈大笑起来,我<span style="color: black;">亦</span>勉强干了这杯酒。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">随后,<span style="color: black;">大众</span>倒满了第二杯,简单的吃了几口菜后,2口又干了第二杯酒。此时,我的头感觉到有点晕乎,身体轻飘的。我对旁边的同事说道:“李哥,<span style="color: black;">能够</span>扶我去趟洗手间吗?”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">李哥扶我刚进卫生间,我“哇的”一下吐了一地。李哥边拍我的后背边说:“我刚来的时候<span style="color: black;">亦</span>和你<span style="color: black;">同样</span>,以后习惯就好了。喝酒<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是<span style="color: black;">营销</span>工作的一部分,在山东尤其重要。”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">听完李哥的话,我洗了一把嘴和脸,随李哥又回到了酒桌上。最后<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>喝了3个小时的酒,我<span style="color: black;">保持</span>到了第五杯的5口干。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">章经理高兴的说:“小黄,你<span style="color: black;">能够</span>啊,<span style="color: black;">第1</span>次就喝了5杯。”我说道:“多亏领导的培养。”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">接下来的日子,我基本上<span style="color: black;">每日</span>不是陪客户喝酒,<span style="color: black;">便是</span>陪领导喝酒。说来<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是奇怪,基本上只要酒喝到位了,<span style="color: black;">营销</span>量肯定能完成。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">3年的时间,我<span style="color: black;">因为</span>业绩出色,被提拔为山东<span style="color: black;">机构</span>的<span style="color: black;">营销</span>副总经理,年薪24万元。<span style="color: black;">然则</span>我心里清楚,这都是我一杯一杯喝出来的。<span style="color: black;">长时间</span>的饮酒<span style="color: black;">引起</span>我的身体被掏空,胃部<span style="color: black;">显现</span>了问题。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">2018年6月份的一天,我和同事开车去烟台拜访客户。<span style="color: black;">忽然</span>,我的腹部<span style="color: black;">病痛</span>极了。同事带我来到了<span style="color: black;">周边</span>的三甲医院,经过<span style="color: black;">大夫</span>诊查我得了急性胃溃疡。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">大夫</span>告诉我,你这是喝酒频繁<span style="color: black;">引起</span>的,要<span style="color: black;">掌控</span>,<span style="color: black;">同期</span>给我开了点治疗的<span style="color: black;">药品</span>。<span style="color: black;">起始</span>的时候,我比较<span style="color: black;">重视</span>,<span style="color: black;">尽可能</span>少喝客户喝酒。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">后来喝了几次感觉没啥事了,就放纵了自己。<span style="color: black;">最后</span>,我为自己的放纵买了单。我喝酒喝出了胃部<span style="color: black;">流血</span>,同事们将我送到了医院。<span style="color: black;">大夫</span>告诉我说,<span style="color: black;">必须</span>切除胃部的2/3手术,手术费8万元。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">后来,我和<span style="color: black;">妻子</span>商量后,决定做切除手术。手术很成功,<span style="color: black;">然则</span>手术后我<span style="color: black;">全部</span>人由原来的180斤瘦到了120斤。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">我<span style="color: black;">亦</span>彻底的和白酒说了再见,<span style="color: black;">因为</span>我喝不了酒,好多工作开展不了。之前的<span style="color: black;">优秀</span>客户都去找别的钢厂的好大哥了,我的<span style="color: black;">营销</span>量急剧下滑。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">后来,我<span style="color: black;">亦</span>主动找领导谈心,请求调到别的部室工作。领导鉴于我以前的优秀业绩和<span style="color: black;">日前</span>的<span style="color: black;">状况</span>,同意我去了一个相对<span style="color: black;">清静</span>的部室,每月挣着6千元的工资。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">可能有人会说,你能承受从月薪2万到6千元的心里落差吗?你真的能放得下吗?</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">为了生活,为了健康,<span style="color: black;">无</span>什么放不下的。正如摩根所说:“失去金钱<span style="color: black;">没关系</span>,失去生命才最可怕。”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">对此,友友们怎么看?欢迎评论区留言。</span></p>
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