原创 “辛苦1小时，没写几个字”，孩儿写作业磨蹭，原由就在父母
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">刚打开<span style="color: black;">微X</span>，我<span style="color: black;">发掘</span>好多群都在转发一条视频：</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">内容是妈妈<span style="color: black;">由于</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做作业糊弄，于是上演了一堂生动的<span style="color: black;">教育</span>课，在厨房里哐哐哐一顿洗、切、炒、煮，端出来一盘和一碗空气。主打一个糊弄。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><img src="//q4.itc.cn/images01/20240410/26334fa8743741559735b7ae622235f4.jpeg" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>问妈妈，你在厨房忙活一个多小时，就做了一顿空气？</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">妈妈毫不客气地回怼：“你在房间里面写了一个小时的作业，不<span style="color: black;">亦</span>一个字没写吗？”</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><img src="//q2.itc.cn/images01/20240410/fb9f672720dc44788a661301b71b1ed8.jpeg" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">底下一大堆家长点赞妈妈，认为她的教育方式很棒，身教大于言传！</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">针对</span><span style="color: black;">每一个</span>家长<span style="color: black;">来讲</span>，最头疼的莫过于<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>写作业。<span style="color: black;">没</span>论是苦口婆心，还是棍棒打骂，人家油盐不进，<span style="color: black;">基本</span><span style="color: black;">不愿</span>好好写作业。<span style="color: black;">每日</span><span style="color: black;">那样</span>点量，非折腾到十点。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">为了辅导<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>作业，家长有的家长气到住院，有的为了不管<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>作业，甘愿加班。一个家长<span style="color: black;">乃至</span>全网寻找丈母娘，声<span style="color: black;">叫作</span>陪房送车，只要<span style="color: black;">此刻</span>把“<span style="color: black;">姑爷</span>”接回家辅导就行。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">成年人的世界充满<span style="color: black;">没</span>奈，<span style="color: black;">没</span>论怎么难受，生了<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，还<span style="color: black;">必要</span>辅导他的作业。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">针对</span>低年级<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，我<span style="color: black;">意见</span>陪着写作业。</strong><span style="color: black;">原由</span>是<span style="color: black;">她们</span><span style="color: black;">不足</span>自觉。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">一坐下写作业，一会儿摸摸橡皮，一会儿找找尺子，一会又要在书包里翻东找西。一个小时过去了，他还写不了几个字。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">陪着他，起码在<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>眼皮子底下，他不至于浪费太多的时间。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">当然陪<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>写作业，对<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>有<span style="color: black;">必定</span>的<span style="color: black;">需求</span>：</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">1.计时</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">通常</span>写作业30分钟，要让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">休憩</span>一下。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">详细</span>操作是用计时器计时，时间一到，<span style="color: black;">马上</span>停下来让他<span style="color: black;">休憩</span>。<span style="color: black;">另一</span>，计时器要摆在<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>面前，让他有紧迫感，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>不会再磨蹭、说话<span style="color: black;">或</span>是做小动作。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">为何</span>这么做呢？<span style="color: black;">重点</span>有3个<span style="color: black;">原由</span>。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">首要</span>，低年级<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的专注力时间短，差不多<span style="color: black;">便是</span>30分钟。在这段时间内，他能集中精力，专心写作业。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">其次，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是为了<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>眼睛<span style="color: black;">思虑</span>，防止过早近视。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">视光<span style="color: black;">研究</span>究报告指出，儿童在2、3年级最容易近视。<span style="color: black;">原由</span>是与生俱来的远视<span style="color: black;">贮存</span>差不多<span style="color: black;">已然</span>用光，再加上<span style="color: black;">逐步</span><span style="color: black;">增加</span>的学习任务，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>多会在这个年龄近视。而<span style="color: black;">定时</span><span style="color: black;">休憩</span>，则能让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的睫状肌得到有效调节，延缓近视的进程。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">最后，计时30分钟，是让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">晓得</span>自己要学习多<span style="color: black;">长期</span>，有一个心理预期，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>会<span style="color: black;">帮忙</span>他专心写作业。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">否则</span>他不<span style="color: black;">晓得</span>学习多<span style="color: black;">长期</span>，会<span style="color: black;">由于</span><span style="color: black;">无</span>边界而觉得煎熬。</p>
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<h1 style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;">2. <span style="color: black;">恰当</span>安排作业<span style="color: black;">次序</span></h1>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">没</span>论<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，还是<span style="color: black;">成人</span>，身体机能都会随着任务时间的延长而<span style="color: black;">逐步</span>消耗。就跟<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>打怪<span style="color: black;">同样</span>，时间越长，血量越低。“血量”一低，<span style="color: black;">重视</span>力、思维能力都会下降。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">虽然吃晚饭<span style="color: black;">时期</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>有了短暂的<span style="color: black;">休憩</span>，身体机能<span style="color: black;">亦</span>暂时恢复过来，<span style="color: black;">然则</span>随着做作业时间变长，他的体能还是会<span style="color: black;">逐步</span>消耗。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">为了提<span style="color: black;">有效</span>率，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>防止最后哭着喊着作业太难，<span style="color: black;">因此</span><span style="color: black;">咱们</span>一<span style="color: black;">起始</span>就要把最难、最<span style="color: black;">要紧</span>的作业让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>先做。</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">一般</span>计算题<span style="color: black;">必须</span>的脑力多，<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">需求</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">重视</span>力集中，我<span style="color: black;">通常</span>会<span style="color: black;">意见</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>先做数学。<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">能够</span>先和他<span style="color: black;">一块</span>复习当天所学内容，再做作业。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">当然这<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是<span style="color: black;">能够</span>随时<span style="color: black;">调节</span>的。去年<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">通常</span>先做数学，今年有了英语后，<span style="color: black;">由于</span>他<span style="color: black;">无</span>提前学，<span style="color: black;">因此</span>有点吃力，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>会先搞英语。第二个计时再做数学。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">3.家长不要看手机</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">既然陪<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>学习，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>要当好<span style="color: black;">典范</span>。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">能够</span>拿一本书在<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>旁边看书，写笔记。<span style="color: black;">或</span>完成工作<span style="color: black;">亦</span>行。<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>看到<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>专心，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>会用心学习。这<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是身教的力量。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">倘若</span>不想看书，<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">无</span>工作，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>要拿本书装样子。千万不要玩手机。<span style="color: black;">由于</span>在<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>眼里，手机=玩乐。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">咱们</span>玩手机，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>写作业，他会心里很不舒服：<span style="color: black;">为何</span>我要学习，而你就<span style="color: black;">能够</span>享受？</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">看书其实<span style="color: black;">亦</span>挺好，起码让咱们又有机会学习。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">既然<span style="color: black;">作为</span>了<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的爸爸妈妈，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>就要随时帮一把，尤其是遇到<span style="color: black;">各样</span>难关时，<span style="color: black;">例如</span>写作业。帮他养成良好的习惯后，以后广阔的天地，都是任凭<span style="color: black;">她们</span>驰骋了。<a style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">返回<span style="color: black;">外链论坛：www.fok120.com</span>，查看<span style="color: black;">更加多</span></span></a></p>
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